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| We talk about it and role play |
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| We have done in past and will never do again |
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under_assertive
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 Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 8:40 pm Post subject: Re: Would you share your wife or partner?? |
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| conniejones73 (at) yahoo.com wrote: |
| Would any of you share your wife/partner with another guy? On looking at teh many posts on this subject, including my own, I started to wonder just how common this really is have any of you done this, considering this....lets run a poll and find out |
10th August:- I've changed my mind ... I'd rather have my eyes poked out. I deserve to have a woman all to myself, and she deserves to have a man all to herself. It's about respect for each other.
I would consider it. But ... I think I would only be able to deal with it if it was very occasional, and I mean 'very' occasional. I would also like her to do it with someone whos a long way away so the people arn't 'immediatly available'. It would also have to be with someone she doesn't know.
Anything other than this and I would feel as though I wasn't good enough for her. I'm not secure enough in myself to withstand the lifestyle of regular promiscuity. However I realise that lifelong monogamy is an ideal that can be highly difficult for most people. So I would be willing to work with it than agaisnt it, but only to a point.
But you never know, if I actually had a real relationship I might be the biggest slut in the country ... who knows. 
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snappy120_2
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Sally & Snappy: You are both a little selfish with your sex lives it seems!
It's ok for you to get laid but not your guys. Though you gettin laid is fine by me! 
You aren't quite the liberated women you think you are. why not allow them off the leash one in a while too?  |
As I said before hun
I'm too jealous, no problem in admitting that. I wish I could change but I can't
I have issues with paranoia. I'm incredibly confidant in how I look etc until my guy notices another girl, then I feel worthless
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21yearoldmale
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| Hell no. I'd def wreck the guy and unless the girl was super quiet and knew to stfu and leave quietly id wreck her too. Sure its "wrong" and id prob go to jail but hell she had her fun now its my turn right? |
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21yearold
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| Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 6:18 am Post subject: |
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Notice the naysayers are the people who have never done it?
I have done it, and it's fantastically fun, and enjoyable to see the woman I love getting as much pleasure as is possible for her to get.
That's a significant gift I'm giving her.
It comes with lots of responsilibity though, so it's not for everyone, but if one is mature enough, and smart enough (to filter out problem people!), then it can be a fantastic thing to do. |
Oh rly lol did you also know the majority of people against murder havent killed anyone? or most people who find fat people repulsive have never slept with one?
Seriously only retards do things they are quite obviously find disgusting. You'd have to be a retard if you had to TRY everything just to know you wouldnt like it. Who knows maybe you like getting punched in the balls repeatedly too. How about you try to make sure you really don't like it. |
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sarge
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| Posted: Wed Aug 06, 2008 10:11 am Post subject: |
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| mande wrote: |
Notice the naysayers are the people who have never done it?
I have done it, and it's fantastically fun, and enjoyable to see the woman I love getting as much pleasure as is possible for her to get.
That's a significant gift I'm giving her.
It comes with lots of responsilibity though, so it's not for everyone, but if one is mature enough, and smart enough (to filter out problem people!), then it can be a fantastic thing to do. |
Oh rly lol did you also know the majority of people against murder havent killed anyone? or most people who find fat people repulsive have never slept with one?
Seriously only retards do things they are quite obviously find disgusting. You'd have to be a retard if you had to TRY everything just to know you wouldnt like it. Who knows maybe you like getting punched in the balls repeatedly too. How about you try to make sure you really don't like it. |
i love your post. one of my pet peeves is people saying: how do u know u don't like it? u aint tried it! of course a person can know whether or not they would like something with out having to try it. you are right; you know you won't like the form of sexual sharing they are doing and it is you right to not like it. they are upset because you are not validating what they find exciting. why it lessens their enjoyment that you don't want to participate is beyond my understanding. however, i am a sexually adventurous person and so is my wife and we have tried and liked what these people are advocating. but despite what i enjoy, i support your right to enjoy your own forms of sexual pleasure. just because i like different things than you doesn't mean that i can't find common ground with you about an obviously stupid comment. friend, i wish you joy in your sex life as i am sure you wish me joy in mine. |
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davian
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| Posted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 10:53 am Post subject: |
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| Each to his or her own. Personally I've tried it, I liked it & no doubt I will again, partner willing, even if it has led to tears on occasion . . . The desire to do so doesn't seem to go away for long. |
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Smarks
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I'd love to try it. i love the thought of men fantasising ove rmy wife, she is a slim good looking leggy brunette, ... and i'd love to watch her with another guy etc.
But sadly she isnt up for it following several discussions. So that's the end of it. |
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dellwood
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she was the one that asked if i wanted to try a extra guy in bed that was many years ago. she said she just was not getting enough c0c k to please her. at the time i was not getting any rest,she was always ready to f c k.i just could not keep up to her.i hear you guys laughing but you try to stay up with her after working 10 hours aday.i even had some of the men she f c k's tell me she is to much for one guy.her best was 9 men ok 9 adult men taking turns with her and after all day and most of the night all she did was wash up and take a coffee break and she was ready for more.2 1/2 days with 9 guys till it was only 3 the last 1/2 day.
like i so love her and she is so hot looking but sex is well way to much. |
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conniejones73@yahoo.com
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| Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 4:35 pm Post subject: any one care to add |
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| Well guys (gals) |
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55 chevy
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| dellwood wrote: |
she was the one that asked if i wanted to try a extra guy in bed that was many years ago. she said she just was not getting enough c0c k to please her. at the time i was not getting any rest,she was always ready to f c k.i just could not keep up to her.i hear you guys laughing but you try to stay up with her after working 10 hours aday.i even had some of the men she f c k's tell me she is to much for one guy.her best was 9 men ok 9 adult men taking turns with her and after all day and most of the night all she did was wash up and take a coffee break and she was ready for more.2 1/2 days with 9 guys till it was only 3 the last 1/2 day.
like i so love her and she is so hot looking but sex is well way to much. |
for real guy i think i dated her in college she only had sex on her mind 23hours a day. she was so good at it to but i could not handle her,when i left she got 2 guys to move in with her,i heard they left only after 1 year of her. so now i see where she ended up.lol |
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TheIntro
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