How many men turn down there partner when they want sex?

Guest

I'm always up for sex with my wife,but only get it twice a week,mostly these are quickies,i try it on two or three other times but get nowhere.

So i'm thinking next time she comes on to me,i'll turn her down,even though i'll be gagging for it.

How do your partners take it when you turn them down?

Joe

jodi · Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2004 11:39 am Post subject: no sex tonight

Watch it Joe, Smile

it will turn in to a bad game in the long run....She said NO he said NO and nobody has fun!!

buddy · Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2004 11:46 am Post subject:

My hubby has only turned it down once in 16 yrs Shocked

Didn't think he knew how to say no.lol He only turned it down cause he was really unwell.
Never said no since Wink

boredddd · Guest

I've haven't really been "turned down" by my dh, but I've been put on hold...

I was all over him and he's like "you really want it don't you?" well duh
then he says "later"!!!

Well he got drunk and later never came...makes me not want to be the aggressor. He wants me to start it then when I do he says "later"
f**k that bs. Evil or Very Mad

libby · You Go Girl (100+ Posts) Joined: 21 Nov 2004 Posts: 101

buddy · Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2004 7:34 am Post subject:

Guest · Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2004 8:14 am Post subject:

I've said no. I've been married for 20 years and my wife is in the mood about once every two weeks. Sometimes this has gotten me so angry that I simply refuse as well. Of course this is a vicious cycle. Nevertheless I found her reaction to the first time that I turned her down (about 5 years ago) very enlightening. She stormed out of the bedroom and in the morning asked me if I wanted to separate. I said no, and pointed out that she has denied me sexual pleasure hundreds (if not thousands) of times without me acting like it is the end of the world. Do all women feel so self-entitled?

shelly · Guest

i'm up for it any day!!!

Guest · Posted: Sat Nov 27, 2004 1:24 am Post subject:

Ive been married 7 years, togher for 10, my wife is an amazing woman and I could not imagine life without her, we met in Holywood and lived n LA for 2 years, travelled around the world with her, now sttled in UK.

We still have good sessions, althogh careful as no cotraception & 3 kids, and don't want any more. I only had to look at her and she was pregnant. Slowed alittle lately as I ve been to see the doc,(July) waiting for all clear, then she's ad it!!!
Cheers

Guest · Posted: Sat Nov 27, 2004 4:26 pm Post subject:

I turned down my girlfriend once when I was tired (couldn't sleep because or the previous nights beating) and she beat me so badly it will never happen again.

Guest · Posted: Mon Nov 29, 2004 2:36 pm Post subject:

I dont look at it as being turned down. I look at it the way it is - my gf just doesnt want to right now. If she did that once a week or once a day i wouldnt care. Im her partner not someone she has to do anything for or anything with just cause id like to.

mchosay · Posted: Mon Nov 29, 2004 4:39 pm Post subject:

realist · Guest

Well, I have turned the tables on my wife of 28 years. She gave me every excuse in the book so many times I got sick of it. Especially after finding out recently that she was cheating on me. Now I'm the one who says no all the time. I've given up on a decent sex life with her. She is very dependent on me for just about everything so she isn't going to leave me. She is worried that I am going to leave her. Now she is desperate to regain my trust but she won't get it. Even when we do have sex it isn't very good for her. I make her work for it and if I can I try like hell to lose the erection. I can't resist the bj but when I get in her I think of her cheating on me and it works.

I hate her for what she did.

joffa from down under · Posted: Tue Nov 30, 2004 3:17 am Post subject:

Guest · Posted: Tue Nov 30, 2004 10:53 am Post subject:

Are we talking about men here?

What planet is this? I never heard of a man turning a woman down for sex!

Mind you, I live "downunder", where men eat steel for breakfast, titanium for lunch and engine blocks for dinner!

I have never turned my wifer down for sex ever! Okay I have passed out from being drunk, but willfully turning a horny woman down?

One would have to be f'kin insane!!