Massage Girls

[Sam 5]

I borrowed my partners phone the other dayand found out that he has been phoning massage girls from local papers told him I had found one and he denied all knowledge of it he said it was a women that helps with the computers at work then angrily I checked and found more he doesent know I know about the others for the last month there hasent been any more numbers worried sick that he might be visiting girls like this

[Stan]

Why do women do this sort of thing? Massage services and prostitution, stripping etc. Don't they care about the damage they do to other women by suborning their men.?

Yes, your man is not being true to you and deserves censure, but when are women going to clean up their act?

[wurze]

"When are women going to clean up their act". Stan are you honestly suggesting that its the womens fault because some men visit strip joints, massage parlours and the like? D'rrr my brain hurts!!

[Stan]

Wurze. Yes, men are at fault too and I did say he deserves sensure. He can't wriggle off the hook.

But are you really saying that the women who provide such services are not also at fault.? That they are not to have any responsibility for their actions? They are the hook that catches the fish. Thats OK is it. Women can do anything they like? That the damage to other women is all the mens fault and the women 'service' providers are perfectly blameless? That they have nothing to do with the distress that Sam5 is feeling? Give me a break. Or is it all one way. men to blame for everything.

I was asking a perfectly reasonable question.

[Jeanette]

Wurze you are too quick off the mark. Stan is being perfectly reasonable here. There are stupid women about and dirty women about. They think that sex can be sold and that men should buy it. Men get the blame, not unreasonably as Stan says, but women should get some too. Its wives and girlfriends that pay eventually. Some women do any dirty thing for money. Selling sex is degrading to women and to men. Most women wouldn't consider buying sex themselves.

[sharyn]

i do not practise massage as a profession but i am a fully trained massues and i was shocked at this topic, the girls i know that do get paid for massages, and are doing it to help ppl, massages aren't always seedy things used to get ppl into prostitution etc

some ppl actually use a massues for physical problems, back ache, stiff joints etc so please think b4 marking all "massage girls"

oh and men that feel the need to visit prostitutes while in stable relationships should hold all the blame not the prostitutes, they are the ones cheating. the girl in question doesnt know the ins and outs of the guys lives!

[Paula]

The original post here from Sam5 was clearly expressing a worry and suspicion that the massage girls in question didn't just do massage. So I have to agree with Jeanette and Stan.

Maybe, Sharyn, you should be agreeing too as such women are making your chosen profession a cover for selling sex.

Other woman as well as men suffer from this disgusting and degrading practice. Not only do they cheapen love but have the nerve to claim they have the right to rip off men with the excuse that men want to pay. This is just shifting the blame to men for women's greed.

Tell me Sharyn, would you sell sex? Or do you place a value on love that puts it right out of the commercial sphere altogether.

[Stephie]

Oh Sharyn ! No one is knocking genuine masseuses.

So you think prostitution is all mens fault? That it is ok for women to charge men for the dubious privilege of shagging them? This is womens liberation??? Both men AND women are at fault. Stan is mearly asking women to carry their end of the responsibility. Is there something wrong in that? Why be shocked?

You are quick to give advice and opinion at the drop of a hat without thinking through all the issues. I guess that's what 19 y/os do.

[sharyn]

sex is sex - its fun and (sometimes) enjoyable

making love with someone that u r in love with has something in it and that means something

i do think that these girls(prostitutes) have a "service" as such to offer, now b4 ppl jump down me neck, think about it, about 75% of the girls doing it are in very low points in their lives, either homeless or being pushed/forced to do this, i myself have been this low, not low enough to seel my body to keep food/shelter but i was homeless when i was younger only for a couple of months but i will never forget what i saw/heard and i hope i never have to see it all again! some men think that the only way the can get sex is to pay someone, and i think that is very sad, i feel sorry for these ppl and hope that someday there wont be a need for the prostitutes but in this society not everyone will have the confidence to go out and find someone to give their affections too

hope that rant has made sense to ppl

world peace might be to much to ask for but how bout we're at least nice to each other?

love and hugs to all

oh and massage isnt my chosen profession btw

[sharyn]

[MissJackie23]

[sharyn]

Thank you jackie

[Harry]

Sharyn, A little more support

If I didn't know how old you were I would have thought you were a lot older because you talk a lot of sense and have obviously had a lot of experience . As far as I am concerned you bring as much wisdom to this board a people twice your age (and I'm at least that). So don't take any notice of the knockers (I've had a few too) - sod em!

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