Posted: Fri Nov 26, 2004 11:59 pm Post subject: hey people, i need some beginners advice
alrighty, heres the story. i met mr. wonderful, and i really love him and trust him and we've gotten really close over the past year. well, its gettin to be that time where we're thinking about taking things to the next step, and gettin intimate. im alright with the idea, i love him and i know it would make me and him happy.
problem is, well its my first time, and i wanna have it be special, and good at the same time. i already know what im wearing and all that, but what would be the best possition to use so that it doesnt hurt as much, and (from the girls) what can i expect to happen? any precautions other than BC and condoms should i take?
and most importantly, does anybody have any tips for keeping it cool and just going with the flow? anticipation and cold feet spoil the whole moment, can anybody help me with some ways to prevent that? like i said, i want this to be special, for me and him too
You take the top position at first so you have control of the initial penetration. That way you control everything and he can't get carried away or over aggressive. After you are comfortable with what is going on roll over and go for it.
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