Help pregnant at 14

canydy ice · Guest

Help me I am 14 yrs old and have just found out that I am pregnant, wot shld i do how do i tell my mum, im so scared dos anyone have any ideas.

madtune · Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 5:16 pm Post subject:

hi personally i think u shud b honest with ur mum, her reaction may surprise u, even if it doesnt i think she would rather u tell her

does ur mum no ur sexually active ??

what ever u decide to do it wil b easier for u with ur mum support, its impossible to go it alone, i no this as my sis came home preg @ 13, my mum wasn't best pleased if im honest but she stuck by my sis 100% what ever decison she made, i can imagine how daunting it is, but u wil b so relieved once u told her, even if she is a little off.

GOOD LUCK x

Jecca · Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 5:39 pm Post subject:

If you're mature enough to be having sex, you should be mature enough to deal with the consequences, which means sharing your news with those that love and care about you i.e your mum. She might be a bit mad/upset, but she'll get over than and support you in whatever you want to do.

You have options like abortion and adoption, or if you have a supportive family then maybe you could keep it. You really need to discuss this with your mum.

pregnant lady · Guest

oh dear sweetheart...
you must be absolutely petrified. I know from experience that you should tell you mum, even if she's mad at you .. it wont last forever.
Be mature and sit your mum down. You are so young and need to talk it over with your family (provided your family will listen to your views).
Do NOT let anyone influence your decisions... even your mum.

What are you thinking of doing at the moment?

I really feel for you but things will be okay. Let us know whether you've spoken to your mum.

pisces · Posted: Mon Feb 26, 2007 12:41 pm Post subject:

i agree with everyone else.just be honest.you can't do this alone,you will need all the support you can get.just tell your mum,and then sit down (either on your own,or with her) and think very carefully about what you want to do.a baby is a lifelong responsibility,and you need to decide whether you're mature enough to take that on.good luck hun

TO MORRISON · Guest

OH YOUR SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO CLEVER ARENT YOU!.....
EVERYBODY IGNORE THIS PRAT.. AND HE'LL GET BORED AND GO AWAY.....

Mad

Guest · Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 3:03 am Post subject:

Just abort it!
It's no problem at all!
You go in
They suck it out
Down the sink it goes!
No problems!

madtune · Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 8:43 am Post subject:

if u havent got anything nice & supportive to say don't say anything at all ...its a scared 14yr old girl, she isnt the 1st and wont b the last cut her some slack, how do u no she had unprotected sex

pisces · Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 9:23 am Post subject:

guest.... · Guest

Juicy Lucy · Posted: Fri Mar 23, 2007 5:09 pm Post subject:

well the worst that can happen is that your mom goes mad. but after that the baby will still be there so you'll both have to get together to sort something out. which she will help you do, because after all, she's your mom, she'll want to help you work out the best thing to do even if she's cross.

at best she'll take it well and be very supportve from the start.

whichever way she goes, you'll just have to face it. like someone else said, if you're big enough to do the deed, you have to be big enough to deal with the consequences. sorry if that sounds harsh, but that's the way it is.

don't let anyone persuade you to do anything you don't want to. but at the same time, if you want to keep the baby, and expect your mom to help finance and care for it, you'll have to take into concideration how she feels about doing that, it's only fair.

good luck.

Guest · Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 3:26 pm Post subject:

You need to be discussing this with your parents. it's a shame you didn't feel capable before you got pregnant.

I am sure they will try and help you any way they can.

ebz · Guest

Guest · Posted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 8:42 pm Post subject:

You have a nerve to use 'God' in a post like yours.

Shame on you.

You are Not a true Christian!

ebz · Guest