Janey FemaleFirst Newbie (20+ posts)
Joined: 25 Mar 2004 Posts: 27
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Posted: Thu Mar 25, 2004 8:04 pm Post subject: He over reacts! |
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hello
ive been with my bf for 15months he's from canada and he came here to travel for 2years. So we've lived together from day 1
it's been really hard work and the main problem is my past. I was totally honest and told him about my ex bf's which probably arent the best ppl in the world but hey thats why im not with them now! for the past 15months it kept cropping up.
He just cant let it lie that ive made mistakes, he "tries to make me understand" what a fool i was and constantly asks me why i was with them.
Last night he said he was leaving because my ex which i havent seen or spoke to in over a year came round to pick up his C.D's. My bf said he'd had enough and was sick of the situation. but then this afternoon we talked b4 he went to work and then was shocked when i said i still wanted him to leave. I think he needs to sort his head out and space would be a good thing but do you think i may of just lose the best thing thats every happened to me.
how do I make him see that my ex's mean nothing but if i see them i'll still say hello, i see no reason to ignore them. please give me a clue love J x |
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