Joined: 02 Apr 2005 Posts: 3110 Location: East Europe
Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 8:30 pm Post subject:
THAT_GUEST wrote:
Going with Tucuma's post, and the theme of this thread, I would like to pose a question. As a white male, I find his post very well informed and intelligent. Amnesia, let's say we're walking on the street girl watching and a group of women are approaching. One is a black female. She has a weight problem, and her skin is marred with pimples and scarring. She has a slight amount of facial hair in the form of a visible mustache and a few coarse chin hairs. Just a few but noticeable. Girl 2 appears to be of mid east descent. Olive skinned, dark brown eyes, no makeup of any kind, and she isn't smiling or showing any type of good natured extroverted signs. She is very quiet and defensive in posture. Girl 3 is of Asian descent. Her hair appears dirty, unwashed. Her face is acne scarred, and her teeth are badly crooked and miusaligned. Her body isn't overweight, but she is rather flat chested and she seems more soft and wiggly and than toned and buff. Girl 4 is a caucasisn, she has flawless skin, she is laughing, smiling and talkative. Her hair flows in the breeze, and she has a modesrt bust, nice tan, and her legs seem firm...not necessarily buff, but no flab, wiggle or cellulite. She does have bad teeth, she has poor grammar and speaking ability, and smokes like a chimney. Her right eye is crossed. Which of these ladies, as a white male, would you be more inclined to choose? All have their flaws, noticeably, and each is from a different ethnic group. I'm betting you would choose the caucasian female. You would weigh each for their appearance and body language, but I think you would go with her for the simple reason that physically, she is the lesser of the evils, and I think she would fall within your normal "type" for lack of a better word. We all have a comfort zone, and thus Tucuma is right, we all discriminate at some level. I don't think that makes us outright bigots though. That would mean we hate an entire group or race of people for no reason than where they are from or the color of their skin. That is downright wrong. The thing is, we don't know where Blondie is demographically, to see the choices she has to make, nor she for us.
You know… this would’ve been much better had you posted up 4 photos of some chicks for me to choose from .
Never the less, the race/ethnicity of these 4 girls is of no importance to me. It would have no effect as to me choosing one over the other. I would go with whoever I was the most attracted to. Unlike BAG, I don’t have any preset notions as to what I consider to be attractive and vice versa. If I see it, and I like it, I’ll go with it. That’s not to say that I don’t have preferences, cause I most certainly do. And I definitely tend to find that I am more attracted to the specific types of women that fit my preferences physically, than others. But I would never flat out exclude someone simply because they didn’t fit one of my “preferences”. That would change my preference to a pre-requisite or requirement.
Yes most of us tend to discriminate when it comes to dating, but most don’t do it solely based on the size of peoples dicks or the color of their skin (that’s racial discrimination).
THAT_GUEST wrote:
Which of these ladies, as a white male, would you be more inclined to choose?
I dont recall me being white… at least not the last time I checked .
Joined: 18 Jan 2007 Posts: 17121 Location: aiyeeee....dat good pie!
Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 8:59 pm Post subject:
I am just trying to point out that attraction preferences do make the differences, and it isn't always based on physical attributes. Just going by our own conversations, I wagered you to go for the causcasisn on her body language. In the end, who wants a cold fish or gelatinous blob? I don't even wnat to mention the chipped tooth pecker wrecker!
That_Guest ... grateful for the information.
Not my intention to harass anyone, simply to voice my opinion, something I consider one of my freedoms.
I am a little puzzled by your member's willingness to leap to this conclusion (assumption maybe the more relevant word), based on what evidence?
Nevertheless, I reserve the right to comment whenever and on whatever subject I choose.
how do i know you are a fake?
well, this may come accross as slightly arrogent to some but just as I can be quite articulate with what i want to say ..more so than alot of people i can also spot a troll/bullsh1tter better then alot of people. I am by no means perfect in that regards, i have been tricked/duped in the past and most likely in the future it will happen again ...however i am a fair bit better at spotting people who arn't genuine
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Hi all, allow me to introduce myself. I am an old (54) black Jamaican man and I have been fascinated by this chat.
I began by looking at the pictures posted, to a closer look at one quite attractive looking young woman (BAG) and ran into a number of threads of amusing . (chat).
I confess that I was initially perplexed as to why so many people were so unkind to her and her seeming ability to take it on the chin and politely reply. Please note, I said initially .......
I further confess that I am not offended when strangers express the opinion, either directly or, in this case, indirectly, that because of my colour I am not worthy of consideration (there are too many others who have met me and are of similar opinion), like all males (of my acquaintance) my entreaties are rejected more often than not, I accept this as my lot in life.
Let us be clear, we all discriminate. If we did not then choice would be redundant, so it is not a bad thing, it serves to help us to separate the wheat from the chaff.
Bigotry on the other hand is distasteful, it is hateful, it creates unnecessary pain, it is ugly. I believe that any time a person is inclined to begin a sentence with the word all, stop .... reconsider for inevitably what follows is bound to be nonsense.
Finally, most of us have been influenced into seeing physically attractive persons (however you define that) as superior beings both physically and intellectually, it never fails to disappoint when we take the "lid off" to find that inside is vacant.
the part highlighted in bold italics is pure BS you made up for your own amusement/kicks.
the other part atcually sounded like it wasn't just pulled outta your ass ...however as to me you clearly are making stuff up for your own amusement i am not gonna waste my time responding to even the legit parts of your views/opinions.
I wasted alot of time once in JFM responding to a guy just like you. after a while some alarm bells started ringing and i became suspicous of him ..but gave him the benefit of the doubt and ignored him
...the alarm bells with you are alot louder that guy ever was (for slightly different reasons)
how do i know with any real certainty you're not legit?
well i could probably break it all down piece by piece and explain it pretty well to you if i wanted
..but what would be the point of that?
you'd just use it ..so that next time you are harder to spot : P
nice try. no really it was .. but you don't fool me
Joined: 16 Jun 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Kingston, Jamaica
Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 2:14 pm Post subject:
how do i know you are a fake?
well, this may come accross as slightly arrogent to some but just as I can be quite articulate with what i want to say ..more so than alot of people i can also spot a troll/bullsh1tter better then alot of people. I am by no means perfect in that regards, i have been tricked/duped in the past and most likely in the future it will happen again ...however i am a fair bit better at spotting people who arn't genuine
Mr. A
The one thing I never expected to do was to enter into a debate concerning my genuineness.
So let me say this much, At no point in my life have I have ever felt the need to pretend to be another person. I like who I am.
As for you coming across as "a little arrogent" (arrogant I think is the word you need), you actually come across as a puffed-up pompous pipsqueak.
In short, you are an idiot.
So I propose that you ignore my posts, you'll be happier that way.
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I dont recall me being white… at least not the last time I checked 
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