miss my ex:{ pls help

[lori1]

love my ex bf with all my heart. I love him as much as a person could love someone. He has been gone for some time (3+) months and i miss him so much. HE is almost 3 yrs younger than me( i am 28 and he is 26) and he said he wants to date other girls. He said that he dont want to get into another relationship, but he wants to test the waters. He wants to be single. We talk just about every day, some times the talkes go really well and other times not so good. When he fist moved he said i dont want to be friends than he does. I love him with all my heart and i need him and want him. How can i get him back? how can you tell if he still loves me? he dont tell me nothing? He dont treat me very well now, when we were together he did. He wont tell me where he lives or his phone number. I found out his address and phone number thrught a friend, but i can't go over there, he wont let me in? Why is he saying i want to be friends and treats me like that? what kinda friend dont tell the other there number or where they stay? It is all most like he wants his cake and eat it to. Please help me?? I am desprate

[MarriedMom]

Well it definitely sounds like he has given you a rather offensive cold shoulder, and you need to take the hint. I could be way off here, but any guy that says he wants to see other people, then hits the road without giving you his new address or phone number, sounds to me like they are waayyy over you. Give him his space, realize you are worthy of love from a more deserving guy, and please move on. He's not worth your energy, my dear. Yes, it's painful to lose someone you loved so much, but the pain is only prolonged when you continue to obsess over something he no longer cares to continue, and you will eventually only look like a crazed stalker if you continue to "hunt him down" and try to get back with him.

MM