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Help me please

Postby Julie20010 on Thu Jun 21, 2007 9:47 am

i have a son named jason and he is 14 but he acts so like a baby, he wants to play with baby toys and when he goes to the toilet he wees on the seat all the time. i just dont now what to do, i have 2 daughters and they said treat him like a baby but i dont now please help me.
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Postby julie20010 on Tue Jun 26, 2007 9:00 am

please help me my son is getting worse and worse today he ripped all his sisters clothes and chucked all his food over the floor cause it did not have red sauce on it please help.

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Postby julie20010 on Fri Jul 06, 2007 11:06 am

please help me please

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Postby Guest on Sat Jul 07, 2007 7:21 am

What the F*** do you expect people to do?

Grow up and start being a parent instead of crying about it!

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Postby Guest on Sun Jul 08, 2007 2:54 am

No, not today.

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Postby BabyMary on Sun Sep 09, 2007 9:13 am

he's 14 and doing that! :shock:
Do you disipline him? you need to show him that your in charge and don't be scared of him.
He needs to learn there is consiquences to his actions.
next time he does something bad you could not pay hime his pockect money for that week and If he contines, make him work for it everyweek, it will mean he has less freetime. you could make him do chores which makes things easier for you or you could get him to go out and get a real job, he'll learn some respect and resonsiblity.

Most of all no matter what happens, keep strong and remember your in charge and as long as your in charge you can look after him.
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Postby THAT_GUEST on Sun Sep 09, 2007 10:30 pm

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Re: please

Postby The Colonel on Mon Sep 10, 2007 6:44 pm

julie20010 wrote:please help me my son is getting worse and worse today he ripped all his sisters clothes and chucked all his food over the floor cause it did not have red sauce on it please help.


Yeah right, my 6 year old doesn't do that.

It's called having manners and discipline.

I agree with That Guest, if this is real - see a doctor.
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Postby Guest on Wed Sep 12, 2007 2:59 pm

I am sorry, but that is bad advice.

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Postby Angel_Vaughan on Wed Sep 12, 2007 3:23 pm

Sorry but some of the answers that has been a little harsh....

If your son is doing this then I would say he wants attention, what do you do when he does these things? shout, go mad etc (paying him attention)

I know it's hard but you have to ignore the bad and praise the good.

Have you spoken to a doctor? I believe by the sounds of it that your son's problem may be a little deeper than just attention seeking... I'm not a pro or anything but just mho.

As for the comments of is this real/fake??? - Don't be so small minded, if you feel you can offer advice then post, if you can't then don't... Also if it is fake so what, it just means I've wasted a couple of minutes of my time when I could have been helping a person who could of really needed the advice. Personally I have a few minutes to try and help someone.

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Postby BabyMary on Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:18 pm

Actaully I agree with Angel_Vaughan.
Sorry I realise my answer was very harsh and In hindsight I would forget about it completely :P My apoligies.

I adivise you take Angel_Vaughans advice it would be most benefical for you and your son.
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Postby The Colonel on Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:32 pm

Angel_Vaughan wrote:Sorry but some of the answers that has been a little harsh....

If your son is doing this then I would say he wants attention, what do you do when he does these things? shout, go mad etc (paying him attention)

I know it's hard but you have to ignore the bad and praise the good.

Have you spoken to a doctor? I believe by the sounds of it that your son's problem may be a little deeper than just attention seeking... I'm not a pro or anything but just mho.

As for the comments of is this real/fake??? - Don't be so small minded, if you feel you can offer advice then post, if you can't then don't... Also if it is fake so what, it just means I've wasted a couple of minutes of my time when I could have been helping a person who could of really needed the advice. Personally I have a few minutes to try and help someone.


Think about it, would someone with a problem like this consult a professional or a forum?

Hmm...........
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Postby Angel_Vaughan on Thu Sep 13, 2007 9:47 am

Maybe,

Just because you wouldn't does't mean that everyone else shouldn't.

She may be embarrassed that her 14yr old son is acting like this.

You never know.

That's why if it is fake, so what I've been take for a ride never mind I'm old enough to let that get brushed off my shoulders. If it is real then I may have helped someone who really doesn't know what to do.

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Re: Help me please

Postby The Colonel on Fri Sep 14, 2007 6:54 pm

. wrote:
Julie20010 wrote:i have a son named jason and he is 14 but he acts so like a baby, he wants to play with baby toys and when he goes to the toilet he wees on the seat all the time. i just dont now what to do, i have 2 daughters and they said treat him like a baby but i dont now please help me.
Julie


u have just made that up you T0SSER


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Postby julie20010 on Tue Oct 02, 2007 6:57 pm

i havnt made anything up it is true and u if u dont believe me i will invite u all for a cup of tea to see for yourselfs

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