Help me please

Julie20010 · Guest

i have a son named jason and he is 14 but he acts so like a baby, he wants to play with baby toys and when he goes to the toilet he wees on the seat all the time. i just dont now what to do, i have 2 daughters and they said treat him like a baby but i dont now please help me.
Julie

julie20010 · Guest

please help me my son is getting worse and worse today he ripped all his sisters clothes and chucked all his food over the floor cause it did not have red sauce on it please help.

julie20010 · Guest

please help me please

Guest · Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 6:21 am Post subject:

What the F*** do you expect people to do?

Grow up and start being a parent instead of crying about it!

Guest · Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 1:54 am Post subject:

No, not today.

BabyMary · Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 8:13 am Post subject:

he's 14 and doing that! Shocked

Do you disipline him? you need to show him that your in charge and don't be scared of him.
He needs to learn there is consiquences to his actions.
next time he does something bad you could not pay hime his pockect money for that week and If he contines, make him work for it everyweek, it will mean he has less freetime. you could make him do chores which makes things easier for you or you could get him to go out and get a real job, he'll learn some respect and resonsiblity.

Most of all no matter what happens, keep strong and remember your in charge and as long as your in charge you can look after him.

THAT_GUEST · Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 9:30 pm Post subject:

does the word PSYCHIATRIST mean anything to you? Rolling Eyes

The Colonel · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 9459

Guest · Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 1:59 pm Post subject:

I am sorry, but that is bad advice.

Angel_Vaughan · Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 2:23 pm Post subject:

Sorry but some of the answers that has been a little harsh....

If your son is doing this then I would say he wants attention, what do you do when he does these things? shout, go mad etc (paying him attention)

I know it's hard but you have to ignore the bad and praise the good.

Have you spoken to a doctor? I believe by the sounds of it that your son's problem may be a little deeper than just attention seeking... I'm not a pro or anything but just mho.

As for the comments of is this real/fake??? - Don't be so small minded, if you feel you can offer advice then post, if you can't then don't... Also if it is fake so what, it just means I've wasted a couple of minutes of my time when I could have been helping a person who could of really needed the advice. Personally I have a few minutes to try and help someone.

BabyMary · Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:18 pm Post subject:

Actaully I agree with Angel_Vaughan.
Sorry I realise my answer was very harsh and In hindsight I would forget about it completely Razz

My apoligies.

I adivise you take Angel_Vaughans advice it would be most benefical for you and your son.

The Colonel · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 9459

Angel_Vaughan · Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 8:47 am Post subject:

Maybe,

Just because you wouldn't does't mean that everyone else shouldn't.

She may be embarrassed that her 14yr old son is acting like this.

You never know.

That's why if it is fake, so what I've been take for a ride never mind I'm old enough to let that get brushed off my shoulders. If it is real then I may have helped someone who really doesn't know what to do.

The Colonel · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 9459

julie20010 · Guest

i havnt made anything up it is true and u if u dont believe me i will invite u all for a cup of tea to see for yourselfs