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Rem Bran
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 9:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

. wrote:
Latest thing is that the guy has invited both of us to a party on Saturday night.
My wife's keen to go and we have babysitters, but I don't know. Don't I could stand seeing him trying to chat her up all night.

Maybe best to just let her go on her own and trust her Question

Andy


yeah and then she leaves you for a real amn your such a pussi.e !!!!!!!
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 12:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It is hard to imagine a scenario like this. If this is true no wonder you are clueless how to react. If you had reacted by throwing a tantrum it would have left a bad taste. So you are handling it fine so far. A guy telling that to another guy about the latter's wife is... I dont know what to say.. just extremely weird and ugly. He must either be a very rude nasty guy or a stupid guy who thinks he is joking and you will find him funny. If it is the latter, it is better. What he is like otherwise? I mean.. does he seem to be a nice person generally? His remark that your wife is a naughty girl is the little disturbing point here. What he meant there? Were you two being naughty before them guys and gave him the idea that may be you would be open to the idea of someone else having a one-off incidence with your wife? Or your wife was giving wrong signals with or without knowing it? Anyways everything is in your wife's hands. Nothing can happen without her allowing it. From what you have said I dont think you told your wife exactly what happened. Did you tell her what this guy told you? I would expect her to get mad. You can have her fire him. But if your wife too seems to be encouraging the idea, I dont think there is much you can do. You can get this guy out of your way but it will be some other guy if your wife has got the tendency to stray. I hope it is not the case. And you shouldnt be worrying. Partners gotta keep trusting each other until they face with concrete evidence of cheating.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 9:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gotta Say wrote:
It is hard to imagine a scenario like this. If this is true no wonder you are clueless how to react. If you had reacted by throwing a tantrum it would have left a bad taste. So you are handling it fine so far. A guy telling that to another guy about the latter's wife is... I dont know what to say.. just extremely weird and ugly. He must either be a very rude nasty guy or a stupid guy who thinks he is joking and you will find him funny. If it is the latter, it is better. What he is like otherwise? I mean.. does he seem to be a nice person generally? His remark that your wife is a naughty girl is the little disturbing point here. What he meant there? Were you two being naughty before them guys and gave him the idea that may be you would be open to the idea of someone else having a one-off incidence with your wife? Or your wife was giving wrong signals with or without knowing it? Anyways everything is in your wife's hands. Nothing can happen without her allowing it. From what you have said I dont think you told your wife exactly what happened. Did you tell her what this guy told you? I would expect her to get mad. You can have her fire him. But if your wife too seems to be encouraging the idea, I dont think there is much you can do. You can get this guy out of your way but it will be some other guy if your wife has got the tendency to stray. I hope it is not the case. And you shouldnt be worrying. Partners gotta keep trusting each other until they face with concrete evidence of cheating.


At last a post that mirrors my own thoughts. The guy himself seems quite nice, he just looks the sort of guy that might get married girls to forget their marriage vows. I think he was partly joking, more as a complement to my wife, but he seems the sort of guy who would at least try and I'm sure would succeed quite a bit.
As for my wife, I haven't told her about the guys comments, her fancying him came up in general conversation. She's never been the sort of girl to shy away from saying she fancies another guy

Andy
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noodles
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 11:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

. wrote:
Latest thing is that the guy has invited both of us to a party on Saturday night.
My wife's keen to go and we have babysitters, but I don't know. Don't I could stand seeing him trying to chat her up all night.

Maybe best to just let her go on her own and trust her Question

Andy


You're full of S***. Your builder who you claim wants to shag your wife, has invited you both to a party and you are contemplating going. Whatever mate Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 11:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

. wrote:
jinjin wrote:
Shocked Did he use the word "will" instead of "would"?


Can't remember exact words.

something along the lines of.

"Your wifes tasty, i'm going to get her into bed" "You what?" I said.
"Just a bit of fun, just the once, don't want to wreck your marriage, mate, she seems a very naughty girl" To which, I walk off shaking my head, but very worried!

Andy

Andy, it's far from a joke. It's powerplay. He's testing your ressolve.
Human beings only have two ways to deal with one another: reason and force. If you want me to do something for you, you have a choice of either convincing me via argument, or force me to do your bidding under threat of force. Every human interaction falls into one of those two categories, without exception. Reason or force, that's it.

By you saying you wont fire him- you're showing that you're allowing him to get away with these kinds of extremely rude and disrespectful comments. So I disagree that if you fire him you're showing it gets to you.
If it happened to me, I would have been upset, thought about it, and if I didn't go backl ater that evening to get the guy off the job due to disrespect- I would probably been pissed off in the evening and then gotten rid of him the following day.
If he'd been even worse- I would most likely get my old "brotherhood" involved.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 12:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Misanthrope wrote:

Andy, it's far from a joke. It's powerplay. He's testing your ressolve.
Human beings only have two ways to deal with one another: reason and force. If you want me to do something for you, you have a choice of either convincing me via argument, or force me to do your bidding under threat of force. Every human interaction falls into one of those two categories, without exception. Reason or force, that's it.

By you saying you wont fire him- you're showing that you're allowing him to get away with these kinds of extremely rude and disrespectful comments. So I disagree that if you fire him you're showing it gets to you.
If it happened to me, I would have been upset, thought about it, and if I didn't go backl ater that evening to get the guy off the job due to disrespect- I would probably been pissed off in the evening and then gotten rid of him the following day.
If he'd been even worse- I would most likely get my old "brotherhood" involved.


Ill go along with most of that a lil more animal then I like to think I am but a good point

Personally I would have laughed and said "go for it she doesn't like men with baby dicks" and tried to attack his insecurity and humiliate him

I'm pretty emotionally detached so I wouldn't have upset me that much (long story about my past which we don't have time for)

I say if it upsets you fire him, your happiness is what counts if its making you doubt things then remove the problem

but im with Misanthrope sounds like hes trying to be an Alpher male and assert his domance

(i dont know if i would go with reason or fource but thats another topic Smile)

best of luck with your decition
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 4:15 pm    Post subject: I have been thinking about this Reply with quote

Tell him to go elsewhere for his sex as your wife is 'out of bounds'
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Rem Bran
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 12, 2007 2:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i still have not had my go
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 12, 2007 4:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If someone had said that to me, I'd have responded "that's a good way to get a bullet in your F****** head!! Now why don't you get the F*** off my property!!".

Then I'd hire someone else. If the kid has a boss I'd call his boss and tell him what happened and that I won't be using them again.

Any man who's too timid to protect what's his probably wants the other guy to F*** his wife.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 4:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Anyhow, she went to the party without me. However, my sister went, so nothing would have happened.

Apparently the guy pulled a single friend of my wife's, and has been talking very enthusiastically about his performance to my wife!

Only one more week's work and he'll be going. He's only a labourer, so there's not much I can complain about his work. The other guys on the site are the craftsmen. So, hopefully it'll die a natural death ?

Andy
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Tys
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 5:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You want to find yourself a hooker that's HIV positive, bang the hell out of her for a week or so without protection... you'll understand in a minute.

Once you get the AIDS you want to do the same thing to your wife, bang hte hell out of her daily for a like a week or so... she'll get the AIDS.

Now you want to let her go F*** the contractor guy, tell her to bang the S*** out of him every day for a week or so. Now he'll have the AIDS.

Problem solved.

You're welcome.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 6:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

As soon as he said that you should have cancelled the contract/agreement with this building firm and reported him to his boss. Cheeky c.unt, he needs to learn some respect, you should have told him to put a shirt on to start with. Hes been paid by yourself to do a professional job not to pranch around thinking hes tarzan.
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 11:34 pm    Post subject: Re: Guy wants to bed my wife Reply with quote

. wrote:
Folks, I have a rather odd dilemma that I really don’t know how to handle.

My wife and I are having an extension build and one of the guys has said he intends to bed my wife! ....
Andy

Chop off his things for even considering it. Chop off your's if you agree to it.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 11:36 am    Post subject: Re: Guy wants to bed my wife Reply with quote

Mac wrote:
. wrote:
Folks, I have a rather odd dilemma that I really don’t know how to handle.

My wife and I are having an extension build and one of the guys has said he intends to bed my wife! ....
Andy

Chop off his things for even considering it. Chop off your's if you agree to it.



swr dwn
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 12:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sarahbabe02 wrote:
. wrote:
jinjin wrote:
Shocked Did he use the word "will" instead of "would"?


Can't remember exact words.

something along the lines of.

"Your wifes tasty, i'm going to get her into bed" "You what?" I said.
"Just a bit of fun, just the once, don't want to wreck your marriage, mate, she seems a very naughty girl" To which, I walk off shaking my head, but very worried!


Andy


Andy - if the guys as tasty as superstuds avatar, then I'd worry. I'd bed him, but then I suppose I'm single.


SHUT UP YOU DUMB BITCH!
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