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Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 7:45 pm Post subject: Guy wants to bed my wife |
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Folks, I have a rather odd dilemma that I really don’t know how to handle.
My wife and I are having an extension build and one of the guys has said he intends to bed my wife! Just for a one off he says, and I think he means it.
Looks wise he’s everything I’m not. I’m 37, got a bit of a gut, not a great body and balding fast. He’s very good looking, full head of hair, athletic body, almost always shirtless even in all this wet weather here in the UK. And young too, only 22. My wife’s lovely, most men fancy here, but as far as I know she’s never cheated on me. I asked her what he thought of him, and she said she wouldn’t kick him out of bed. Only joking, I’m sure, but I don’t know what to do. If it did happen it wouldn’t be the end of our marriage, we have kids and I couldn’t hurt them.
At the moment I’m playing it cool.
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Mr B FemaleFirst Grand Master (1000+ Posts)

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Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 8:09 pm Post subject: |
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| So you're employing this bloke and he says that? Dont employ him anymore. |
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Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 8:17 pm Post subject: |
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| So you're employing this bloke and he says that? Dont employ him anymore. |
did think of that, but that would legitamise his threat and might make matters worse
Andy |
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Exodus FemaleFirst Grand Master (1000+ Posts)

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Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 9:36 pm Post subject: |
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| So you're employing this bloke and he says that? Dont employ him anymore. |
did think of that, but that would legitamise his threat and might make matters worse
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Alright, then if he comes back to the house for your wife, you beat him until an inch of his life and call the cops and say he has verbalized threats of raping your wife to you. You fired him for making the threats, and now he is back, hence its attempted sexual assault and criminal trespassing. Let him explain that . . . |
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mr bond FemaleFirst Guru

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Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 10:06 pm Post subject: |
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Tell him you don't like what he insinuated to you, fire his ass, and refuse to pay him anything you might owe him for the mental distress it caused you.
Let him try to take you to court then counter-sue him on those grounds and get even more out of his worthless ass. |
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drew FemaleFirst Guru

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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 12:32 am Post subject: |
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trust your wife to do the right thing
find out who his mum is and bed his mum
fire him for a silly reason
personaly i say go with the first your probaly do more harm then good with the other 2 how ever the second would be amusing |
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Captain FemaleFirst Guru

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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 2:46 am Post subject: |
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| drew wrote: |
trust your wife to do the right thing
find out who his mum is and bed his mum
fire him for a silly reason
personaly i say go with the first your probaly do more harm then good with the other 2 how ever the second would be amusing |
Yes I'm sure his wife would find it hilarious |
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drew FemaleFirst Guru

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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 3:26 am Post subject: |
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| drew wrote: |
trust your wife to do the right thing
find out who his mum is and bed his mum
fire him for a silly reason
personaly i say go with the first your probaly do more harm then good with the other 2 how ever the second would be amusing |
Yes I'm sure his wife would find it hilarious |
well it was a joke answer in a slightly strange mood today lack of sleep nicotine or some thing simmler
but yes it was a silly answer and intended to be one, but i should have made that a lil clearer |
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Mr B FemaleFirst Grand Master (1000+ Posts)

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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 9:47 am Post subject: |
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| So you're employing this bloke and he says that? Dont employ him anymore. |
did think of that, but that would legitamise his threat and might make matters worse
Andy |
Doesn't really legitimise it. Its way out of order and you shouldnt feel uncomfortable in your own home.It would only make it worse if your wife really did want to sh.ag him and went out of her way to arrange something!Now I guess thats unlikely to happen, certainly a lot less likely than if hes hanging around every day with his shirt off.If that did happen then the issue would be with your wife. Sack him, id love to see his face. He's clearly an idiot who thinks he can go around saying stuff like that. |
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 6:04 pm Post subject: |
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Tell him you don't like what he insinuated to you, fire his ass, and refuse to pay him anything you might owe him for the mental distress it caused you.
Let him try to take you to court then counter-sue him on those grounds and get even more out of his worthless ass. |
If you had a wife, I'd sh4g her in the a$$ & post the video on here  |
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mr bond FemaleFirst Guru

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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 6:20 pm Post subject: |
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Tell him you don't like what he insinuated to you, fire his ass, and refuse to pay him anything you might owe him for the mental distress it caused you.
Let him try to take you to court then counter-sue him on those grounds and get even more out of his worthless ass. |
If you had a wife, I'd sh4g her in the a$$ & post the video on here  |
Get a life you pathetic worthless piece of sh*t loser  |
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superstud101a FemaleFirst Newbie (20+ posts)
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 7:01 pm Post subject: |
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Hey Andy, maybe the blokes just doing it as a wind up.
Good looking young guys love the challenge of trying to chat-up an older married women. If they bed them great, if not its fun trying.
Maybe you should try just having a joke with him.
I assume your wife is a real looker then  |
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italian-stallion FemaleFirst Regular (50+ Posts)

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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 7:03 pm Post subject: |
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| m8 hes doin it to piss u off. dont respond to it. put it this way im sure shes a very good wife and a good mum. she aint cheatin on u mate. she got kids to look after. |
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Verve FemaleFirst Guru
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 7:43 pm Post subject: |
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| What is the world coming to........ |
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jinjin FemaleFirst Guru

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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 8:05 pm Post subject: |
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Did he use the word "will" instead of "would"? |
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