Girl on top during sex/orgasms.... neither works for me!

[Candygrl]

I came across this board today, which looks a hell of a lot better than Google. Im hoping I can get just as good of advice as some of the other posts in here!

I am 20 years old, still never had an orgasm. All my previous sexual partners never fondled with my clit, until recently my boyfriend picked up the tip from one of his buddies. Im getting closer to it orgasming now! But as soon as I feel it comming, it stops or I pull away. Almost like I cant handle it, yet I want it so bad! I was never into masturbatation, but now I am toying with the idea, rubbing myself trying to bring myself to it, seeing what I like and dont. It is very stimulating, but i can not climax and keep it going. Anyone know where Im comming from?

Question two... "Girl on top during sex". Its not working! I need some tips, its frustrating for my boyfriend to do all of the work everytime we have sex. I want to help out, but when I get on top he doesnt really get much at all from it. Its like I am just "Wiggling around" he says, but its hard to hold yourself up there ladies! I want to increase our relationship sexually and please my boyfriend more, as well as myself

Sorry theres so much written, but I hope you can take the time to read it all and help me out! Thanks!

[Lizbo]

Don't worry I'm 18 years old and I've never had an orgasm (from a partner) either. I've had my fair share of sexual partners as well! And I know what people will say, oh you need to talk to your partner, you need to explore your bodies, you've never been in love, you've never had real sex etc etc but I've done all of that and still no luck! It's not that I don't enjoy it, I really do, I love the feeling, just no orgasm to follow. I know what you mean about the whole 'can't handle it, pull away thing', I do that, It's almost like it's too tickly!! Lol. I don't really mind though, all I do is masturbate
As for the whole woman on top thing, I know where you're coming from. It's taken me bloody ages to master that. I can only give you 2 pointers. 1. Instead of just having your legs either side of him, lift one leg up and rest on your foot... so e.g. your legs are still either side of him but your right foot is on the bed. I find this makes thrusting much easier. and 2. Sit as far down on him (you know what I mean) and then instead of wiggling about, rotate your hips or flick your hips back and forth. My boyfriend goes crazy over it! Not sure whether it would actually make them 'cum' but it should feel pretty dam nice anyway!

Hope I helped, best of luck. If you don't understand bits of that, just post another reply x

[Candygrl]

.....atleast now I know im not alone! I will definetly have to take that advice, half the reason why the on top thing doesnt work is i cant hold myself up there, i think that leg trick will work. Ill give it a try and let you know how it goes! Thanks alot!

[Maghesh]

Relax my girl, I don't there is something wrong on being on top, but rather let him guide you during sex as you will both enjoy the climax.

Remember the saying: "You can't rush perfection" !.