Splitting with partner

[Primrose]

Im stuck in a complete rut at the mo, im havin and have had for a while, problems with my partner and i really dont know what to do.

I guess the easiest thing to do is to finish the relationship but i feel so strongly for him and i dunno whether i can cope with the breakup.

We have been through so much together in such a short time that its the most intense reltionship ive ever had.

PLEASE HELP! what should do?
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[Lyn]

You have got to do what you feel is best for you, you cant live with someone for the rest of you life thinking well if only. Especially as how you feel now, you only live once and it isnt worth wasting your life on a relationship that you really dont want to be in, and then again if you can sort your problems out and it is such a good relationship maybe the rut you are in you can both get out of by doing something different join a club get out and about together and most of all talk take time for each other, maybe a glass of wine in the bath could be a start etc

[djdan9999@hotmail.com]

Are you afraid of being single and not finding someone else?

[Tamsin]

You can't stay with someone just because you've been through a lot its all about being happy, sharing, love and more not just obligation. You have to decide, but if you do leave try to stay freinds and I know this will be difficult.

[Fatlisa]

Have you talked to him about the problems? Quite often little problems can spiral in to hugh problems that all build up if they are not sorted out and discussed.

[Primrose]

[Fatlisa]

I think you should say that you are not happy in the relationship at the moment and that you either need to both do something to sort it out and you want to discuss the problems without a row or think that for the best you should split up.