Help Choosing

[prettyboi]

Hello,

I know this is a women's forum but I am a man who often has a strong urge to dress in pretty female clothes. I have decided I want to make the most of my female side and dress in the prettiest clothes more often. I do not want to come out of the closet though.

I need some advice if anyone can help. Primark sell corset tops and I want to buy one but don't know if they work like a traditional corset and would pull me in or if they are just for looks. I am too embarrassed to go into the shop and ask what size to get or even to spend a lot of time browsing for one.

Could someone familiar with them give me help on sizing. I am 34" waist and 38" chest. Would I have to get a large or would a smaller one pull me in. The thought of getting the wrong size and having to take it back might be embarrassing (perhaps it could be fun in a strange way though).

I hope someone can help and perhaps suggest other items I could buy to go with it.