Masterbating

toconfused · Guest

I am woried about my 9 year old girl.
It was last week and i went upstairs to tell her that tea was ready. I opened the door slitlely and i saw her with my boyfreinds viberater. She had her jeans and knikers off, sitting on her bed with her legs wide open MASTERBATING i diddnt say any thing i just knokced on the door she said dont come in be down in a second. Should i be woried?

jinjin · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 11 Oct 2006 Posts: 85315

If you are worry about the masturbation, then there may not be anything wrong. Puberty usually starts anywhere between the ages of 8 and 13. Your daughter may have started early.

If you are worry about how she got a hold of your boyfriend's vibrator then you have an issue to investigate.

Guest · Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 5:14 am Post subject:

If your daughter knows how to use a vibrator she probably has been using if for some time. If she has entered puberty to the extent that she enjoys masturbating, she is going to continue doing it one way or another until she outgrows it. You may be upset about that, but her hormones have kicked in and there is nothing you can do to stop them. If you have nto done so already, you should have a talk with her as soon as possible about the changes that are starting to occur in her body. She is probably ahead of her freinds and classmates in entering puberty, so she has a lot of questions and needs someone to answer them.

Your daughter using your boyfriend's vibrator is another matter. You should make it clear to her that she should not take or use other people's property, particularly their personal things, without their permission. You do not have to mention the vibrator specifically, but you do need to talk with her. If your boyfriend did give her permission to use his vibrator, then you have a much more serious problem which you should discuss with your boyfriend rather than your daughter.

Guest · Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 2:05 pm Post subject: why

why does your boyfriend have a vibrator stored somewhere your 9year old can find it?
you have issues =]

The Colonel · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 9456

I don't believe the OP.

What idiot would come to a forum, type that, and ask "should I be worried?" Rolling Eyes

I'm more worried about their perversion and the fact they can't spell.

Death From Above 1993 · Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 6:18 pm Post subject:

Slightly harsh there I think Colonel, not everybody has our impeccable spelling and grammar. It does strike me as a tall story, but I don't see what's perverted about it. If there is a grain of truth in it, then this boyfriend is remarkably careless (unless he did give this girl his vibrator, in which case, yeah, he's a creep!) and this girl has remarkably little respect for property.

The Colonel · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 9456

Compare this then:

In Family:

http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/board/viewtopic.php?t=181854

In Parenting:

http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/board/viewtopic.php?t=181852

When you read a lot here, you spot them a mile away.

Note Guest 15 was posting asking for advice in Parenting, but was giving advice (the same advice supposedly "others" wew giving in Parenting) in Family.

This story isn't true.