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Vali Guest
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 3:22 am Post subject: Best Friend? |
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I have a girlfriend who has been sleeping around with other men for years. She is married again for the third time and is still messing around. She writes to me about the men she sleeps with. I can't stand hearing how she is hurting so many people in her quest for what? Love? Sex? Boredom?
We've been friends for 30 years. When she is not being a slut and homewrecker, she is a wonderful friend. Can those go hand in hand?
I'm very confused and feel she is damaging our relationship with her low morals. I don't know, maybe I'm just getting older and realizing I dont' need people like that in my life. (I am happily married with a great family.) |
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 10:46 pm Post subject: |
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| She I S a total loser. Let her slut around and you get on with your life without her before she brings you down into the cesspool too. Does your husband know your best friend screws around? I wonder how he woudl feel knowing his wife was best friends with a slut. Better yet, how's her new(?) husband going to react when the sh*t hits the fan and he finds out you knew all the time what she was doing. Throw this one back in the pond and find yourselt a decent friend. |
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Verve FemaleFirst Guru
Joined: 06 Jun 2005 Posts: 5485 Location: USA
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 11:43 pm Post subject: Re: Best Friend? |
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| Vali wrote: |
| maybe I'm just getting older and realizing I dont' need people like that in my life. |
The answer is yes. You might have enjoyed her stories in the past but you have other things in your life to be concerned with now. If she is truly a dear friend and you don't want to lose what you have, it's time for talk. You may be surprised she's willing to change. See what happens. Also makes sure she stays away from your husband. |
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Vali Guest
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Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2008 10:32 am Post subject: Re: Best Friend? |
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| Verve wrote: |
| Also makes sure she stays away from your husband. |
Good advice verve. I've actually already thought of that, sorry to say.
Your right too. Thanks for the feedback. |
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