Joined: 30 Apr 2004 Posts: 28553 Location: Kentucky , USA
Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 4:46 pm Post subject:
You tell me . I'm 24 and have been active with guys and other females since I was 17 . At first I thought I was bisexual . Then after a combination of troubles with boyfriends and sleeping with more and more women I became convinced that I was gay . Later I went back to dating both men and women and was convinced again that I was bi . Now I'm in a solid lesbain relationship and at this point could describe myself as being gay but DO NOT ! . Why ? since I know see sexuality is for many people pretty open . You can be attracted to both genders for sex and emotional reasons . I guess for me anyway labels are for food , not my sexuality . L.
Yep, I think everyone is sexual, just to a different degree and to a different level of admitting desires, etc. I'm an EXTREMELY feminine woman who is, after much thought, bisexual. I love men, and would only have a long term relationship with a man (meaning living together, etc.) but I am also attracted to feminine women, and have been with a few. I would not have a relationship with a woman other than friendship and infrequent sexual encounters, but yes, I do find some women very attractive and I will continue to do so. If I had to choose between men and women, hands down, Men Win, but I'd certainly miss the random hookups with the women I know. I would consider my situation bisexual not bicurious, and I think many more people, both men and women are as well, they just don't act on it or admit it. It is just different levels or sexuality and expression, in my opinion. I live in the US, so maybe that is just the way things are here...not sure, but I sincerely doubt that is the case as Americans are more HUSH HUSH about sexuality, from what I have seen.
I am bicurious, I have given this much thought as I get turned on by images of naked women and enjoy lesbian porn and erotic lesbian stories , my sexual relationships have always been with men and I haven't been in a situation of getting into a sexual relationship with women, so I do wonder whether I would get involved or not but I think it would purely be out of curiosity. Does getting into sexual relationships with other women and also men make a person bisexual while being bicurios is sitting on the sidelines like I do ?