Should i finish with him?

Cathy19 · Guest

Hi ive been going out with my boyfriend for a few months now. We see each other about 3 times a week but every Saturday he has to go out with the "lads".

A couple of weeks ago he bumped me off all weekend and said he will see me on the Tuesday because one of his friends was coming through that he hadn't seen for a while. I was quite pissed off about it and told him this but he said that i will never change him.

I tryed to phone him one Sunday and sent him a text message and he never got back to me untill the Tuesday night, asked what i was up to and expected me to go up and see him but the sad thing was i did.

Also i was suppose to see him one Friday night and tried to phone him to find out what was happening but he was away to the gym, so i was left wondering half the night. He eventually phoned hours later but again i was pissed off with him and he said i just need to go with the flow and chill out.

He is a very selfish lover. He would be quite happy for me to give him oral all night but as soon as i want some its a different story! sometimes i wonder if he gives a S***!

what should i do???

Tom · Guest

Easy - finish with him.

Fatlisa · FemaleFirst Guru Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 1367

This bloke only cares about himself and i sure that deep down you know this.

So trade him in and get yourself a decent b/f, there are plenty out there.

MissJackie23 · Guest

SexGoddess · Posted: Wed Apr 07, 2004 12:17 pm Post subject:

Looks and sounds like something is wrong, time to give him an ultimative, and then you will know whether to push or to shove.[/quote]

Pollyanna · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 08 Apr 2004 Posts: 1

If youre still contemplating Cathy my advice is that you waste no more time. Everything that the others have said is good advice apart from I wouldnt bother with an ultimatum...its obvious that he dont give a damn about your feelings, maybe you dumping him will be a good reality-check?

Get in there and do it whilst you have the confidence to, the last thing you want, is to be giving him chance after chance hoping each time that he'll change. Trust me he wont- and you'll have wasted your time when you could be with someone BETTER!

Zoe · Guest

I am new to this board but I agree drop him and do it quickly if you havent already, move on and make a new life for yourself you dont need him.