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Fred75
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 Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 12:32 pm Post subject: Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Ment... |
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2. Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Mentality?
You may hate the father of your child. You may hate all men. You may feel justified in your malice because of how men have treated you. However, all men are not dogs! Good men do exist! A portion of the men who become dogs were trained to be that way by their disgruntled mothers. These boys listen to their moms speak hypercritically, denounce and condemn all men until they develop a disparaging complex about being a male.
Once those seeds are planted in their impressionable minds and hearts, these boys lose hope about being an honorable man. Their mother’s words become a prophetic utterance. Albeit a negative one. Single moms, you must find ways to encourage your son and put a stop to words and actions that dismantle his vision of being a decent man. All men are not dogs! |
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Lena
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No since I have no son . But have seen it with this one woman and her maybe 13 year old son who are at the hotel where I work often .
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ZiaAries
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How many times must you ask this Fred? 
Yes, I know a bitch that told her son that his dad was a dog. As a matter of fact, he was Chihuahua. |
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ZiaAries
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Woof Woof Fred 
It's getting to be flea season again. See your veterinarian for the latest protection. We don't want you itching and scratching all spring and summer.  |
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Cambridge
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Woof Woof Fred
It's getting to be flea season again. See your veterinarian for the latest protection. We don't want you itching and scratching all spring and summer. |
Especially with that hairy back that we all love to scruff now and then.  |
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ZiaAries
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noodles
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| Posted: Sat May 10, 2008 8:38 am Post subject: Re: Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Ment |
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| Fred75 wrote: |
2. Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Mentality?
You may hate the father of your child. You may hate all men. You may feel justified in your malice because of how men have treated you. However, all men are not dogs! Good men do exist! A portion of the men who become dogs were trained to be that way by their disgruntled mothers. These boys listen to their moms speak hypercritically, denounce and condemn all men until they develop a disparaging complex about being a male.
Once those seeds are planted in their impressionable minds and hearts, these boys lose hope about being an honorable man. Their mother’s words become a prophetic utterance. Albeit a negative one. Single moms, you must find ways to encourage your son and put a stop to words and actions that dismantle his vision of being a decent man. All men are not dogs! |
I think il probably print off your posts and when they're old enough explain that whilst men and women are marvellous sexes THIS is a dog! |
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Fred75
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| Posted: Sat May 10, 2008 3:29 pm Post subject: Re: Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Ment |
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| noodles wrote: |
| Fred75 wrote: |
2. Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Mentality?
You may hate the father of your child. You may hate all men. You may feel justified in your malice because of how men have treated you. However, all men are not dogs! Good men do exist! A portion of the men who become dogs were trained to be that way by their disgruntled mothers. These boys listen to their moms speak hypercritically, denounce and condemn all men until they develop a disparaging complex about being a male.
Once those seeds are planted in their impressionable minds and hearts, these boys lose hope about being an honorable man. Their mother’s words become a prophetic utterance. Albeit a negative one. Single moms, you must find ways to encourage your son and put a stop to words and actions that dismantle his vision of being a decent man. All men are not dogs! |
I think il probably print off your posts and when they're old enough explain that whilst men and women are marvellous sexes THIS is a dog! |
You say your bi-sexual and want to have a child with no father in the house..
Sounds like you WILL be doing the above. |
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Lena
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| Posted: Sat May 10, 2008 3:43 pm Post subject: Re: Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Ment |
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| Fred75 wrote: |
2. Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Mentality?
You may hate the father of your child. You may hate all men. You may feel justified in your malice because of how men have treated you. However, all men are not dogs! Good men do exist! A portion of the men who become dogs were trained to be that way by their disgruntled mothers. These boys listen to their moms speak hypercritically, denounce and condemn all men until they develop a disparaging complex about being a male.
Once those seeds are planted in their impressionable minds and hearts, these boys lose hope about being an honorable man. Their mother’s words become a prophetic utterance. Albeit a negative one. Single moms, you must find ways to encourage your son and put a stop to words and actions that dismantle his vision of being a decent man. All men are not dogs! |
Not all men , just Fred 75 is a dog . |
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noodles
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| Posted: Mon May 12, 2008 12:49 pm Post subject: Re: Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Ment |
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| Fred75 wrote: |
| noodles wrote: |
| Fred75 wrote: |
2. Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Mentality?
You may hate the father of your child. You may hate all men. You may feel justified in your malice because of how men have treated you. However, all men are not dogs! Good men do exist! A portion of the men who become dogs were trained to be that way by their disgruntled mothers. These boys listen to their moms speak hypercritically, denounce and condemn all men until they develop a disparaging complex about being a male.
Once those seeds are planted in their impressionable minds and hearts, these boys lose hope about being an honorable man. Their mother’s words become a prophetic utterance. Albeit a negative one. Single moms, you must find ways to encourage your son and put a stop to words and actions that dismantle his vision of being a decent man. All men are not dogs! |
I think il probably print off your posts and when they're old enough explain that whilst men and women are marvellous sexes THIS is a dog! |
You say your bi-sexual and want to have a child with no father in the house..
Sounds like you WILL be doing the above. |
Im not bi-sexual and have the upmost respect for people regardless of thier sex unless its proved to me that they are opressive/harmful individuals. As we think of each other as both of these things then it seems pointless to argue really. |
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Fred75
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| Posted: Mon May 12, 2008 1:37 pm Post subject: Re: Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Ment |
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| noodles wrote: |
| Fred75 wrote: |
| noodles wrote: |
| Fred75 wrote: |
2. Do You Instill In Your Son: “The All Men Are Dogs,” Mentality?
You may hate the father of your child. You may hate all men. You may feel justified in your malice because of how men have treated you. However, all men are not dogs! Good men do exist! A portion of the men who become dogs were trained to be that way by their disgruntled mothers. These boys listen to their moms speak hypercritically, denounce and condemn all men until they develop a disparaging complex about being a male.
Once those seeds are planted in their impressionable minds and hearts, these boys lose hope about being an honorable man. Their mother’s words become a prophetic utterance. Albeit a negative one. Single moms, you must find ways to encourage your son and put a stop to words and actions that dismantle his vision of being a decent man. All men are not dogs! |
I think il probably print off your posts and when they're old enough explain that whilst men and women are marvellous sexes THIS is a dog! |
You say your bi-sexual and want to have a child with no father in the house..
Sounds like you WILL be doing the above. |
Im not bi-sexual and have the upmost respect for people regardless of thier sex unless its proved to me that they are opressive/harmful individuals. As we think of each other as both of these things then it seems pointless to argue really. |
That's right. I remember now.
You think a child has no right to a mother and father figure in the house raising them. |
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noodles
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You think a child has no right to a mother and father figure in the house raising them.
Then your memory fails you again as you twist and misiterpret any previous paragraphs i've typed.
I believe that a child has a right to be loved, nutured, cared for, protected, guided through life and thier independence harnessed. I believe that this care can come from a number of sources not just a mum, dad living arrangement. I have single parent friends who's children are well adjusted young adults (in some of those cases they havent had the benefit of a father as they simply wern't interested). I know gay parents who's children are also well adjusted adults. I also know of one child from a gay parenting family who is not so well adjusted - thats due to very bad parenting which happens every day with straight couples also.
Children have a right to love and stability - unfortunately many parents, straight and gay are S*** at giving this - THIS is the sadness in my opinion NOT the gender of who lives in the house. |
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The Colonel
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| noodles wrote: |
You think a child has no right to a mother and father figure in the house raising them.
Then your memory fails you again as you twist and misiterpret any previous paragraphs i've typed.
I believe that a child has a right to be loved, nutured, cared for, protected, guided through life and thier independence harnessed. I believe that this care can come from a number of sources not just a mum, dad living arrangement. I have single parent friends who's children are well adjusted young adults (in some of those cases they havent had the benefit of a father as they simply wern't interested). I know gay parents who's children are also well adjusted adults. I also know of one child from a gay parenting family who is not so well adjusted - thats due to very bad parenting which happens every day with straight couples also.
Children have a right to love and stability - unfortunately many parents, straight and gay are S*** at giving this - THIS is the sadness in my opinion NOT the gender of who lives in the house. |
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Fred75
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| noodles wrote: |
You think a child has no right to a mother and father figure in the house raising them.
Then your memory fails you again as you twist and misiterpret any previous paragraphs i've typed.
I believe that a child has a right to be loved, nutured, cared for, protected, guided through life and thier independence harnessed. I believe that this care can come from a number of sources not just a mum, dad living arrangement. I have single parent friends who's children are well adjusted young adults (in some of those cases they havent had the benefit of a father as they simply wern't interested). I know gay parents who's children are also well adjusted adults. I also know of one child from a gay parenting family who is not so well adjusted - thats due to very bad parenting which happens every day with straight couples also.
Children have a right to love and stability - unfortunately many parents, straight and gay are S*** at giving this - THIS is the sadness in my opinion NOT the gender of who lives in the house. |
So then.. your justification that anyone can raise a child lovingly is because there are bad parents out there?
Well then.... sounds like you have a god justification for loving ORPHANAGES to start raising kids.
Better yet... let the government lovingly raise all our kids because of the few F*** ups out there!
How about giving us good reason to believe your argument when its compared to the much bigger majority of loving heterosexual parents. Not SHYTE PARENTS. (which by the way... will happen in every scenario.)
Because I think when you make decisions based on crappiest of parents... theres not a whole lot that looks worse!
And that's NOT THE JUST THING TO DO FOR THE CHILD.
Me.. I prefer not to live in S*** so I can know S*** when I smell it.
Your problem is you have lived in S*** soo long... you cant even see your basing your decision on S***.
So, how bout it then???
Show me how anything you suggest beats two loving heterosexual parents that conceived their own child and put the child before themselves? |
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ZiaAries
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| I know of a dog named Fred that should be neutered. Maybe it will help calm his annoying barking habit. |
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