help needed by 17 Yr old girl (girls only please)

poisonblood

sorry to be sexist to the guys, you can read it but i'm only looking for other female opinions

ok, so i'm completely shaven down there, that's just a personal choice and have been for several years now, but my boyfriend who i've been with for two years, still going strong, recently asked me to stop shaving my pussy and my underarms.

he keeps on about it because he's in recent months developed a bit of a fetish for it, he respects me and understands that i shave but would like me to give ot a break.

shaven is all i know. i've grown up with my female friends and myself used to shaved pussies, although i have total respect for hairy ones

hairy pussy is unfamiliar to me and i don't know what to do, please advise girls, i value your opinions

VampireMistress · Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 6:10 pm Post subject:

Well, underarms I can say nothing about, but pussys I can.

I never used to shave mine, I just kept it trimmed to my satisfaction and that was that. I found it nicer to have something. My current bf doesn't mind either way, but prefers the shaven look and feel. So I shave it for him.

But leave it to grow for a few days, see what you think. It is quite a nice feeling I find. As I say. Underarms I keep shaven, but I wear lots of strappy tops so I like to look good.

Good luck with this.

VM

VanessaEvans · Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 6:21 pm Post subject:

Don't let your pubes and underarm hair grow just because your bf wants you to. It's your body and you should do what you want. Personally I would hate to have hair below my neck again. I've been bald below my neck for about 10 years now and could never imaging having hair again. How amny women do you see with hairy armpits? I suspect that you would get embarressed by it. I would. I would also feel awkward being the only girl in the changing rooms or beach with a hairy bush.
My advice would be to tell him "sorry, but I'm staying the same as I am. please respect my wishes." If he doesn't then perhaps you've learnt something about him that might affect your future with him.

Vanessa

poisonblood · Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 6:01 pm Post subject:

ok, new development

he said to me the other day, and i quote "it's a garden, let it grow"

i'm not sure what he finds more appealing, shaven or bushy or somewhere in between

he said that if i got pregnant he wouldn't let me do anything to remove it, a bit weird and worrying.

the thing is, a (very) small part of me finds the idea of letting it grow sexy, and quite erotic, but i've grown up with the whole barbie doll image, and hairless is what i've always known, so now i really don't know what to do.

more advice needed girls, and please don't let your state of being down below affect comments left, i'm looking for unbiased advice, thanks

Polgara69 · Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 6:09 pm Post subject:

Just wanted to ask how old you are?

poisonblood · Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 6:14 pm Post subject:

i'm 17, so being so young i'm very imfluenced by the media, "barbie doll image" etc. i'm lucky i'm slim, if i were bigger i'd probably feel pressured by society to lose weight

Polgara69 · Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 6:39 pm Post subject:

Exodus · Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 8:14 pm Post subject:

I'm against both, but like what was previously said, it is your body, and you will have to be the one to maintain it, so you have ultimate control over it. Try it out, if you like it, go from there, but if not, then toss it.

Sharon den Adel · Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 3:33 am Post subject:

poisonblood · Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 5:45 pm Post subject:

Sharon den Adel · Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 4:05 am Post subject:

I see...

Polgara69 · Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 7:20 am Post subject:

Triple mmmm...

poisonblood · Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 2:15 pm Post subject:

well i told you that was my little brother on my account, so if you're going to keep going "hmm" then F*** off

Polgara69 · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 9:37 am Post subject:

Was that him as well? Hmmm...

poisonblood · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 3:05 pm Post subject:

no its me get f*cked bitch