i am 15 he is 40 and the best and saved me showed me respect

one of few · Guest

when i went to his place he took one look and told me a fourteen year old girl sleeping around for drugs told me if i want him i have to wait tell we are married wow i was not expecting that never seen that before i was brought up around dope slammers he took me in and today every time my mom comes around and sees what a lady i have become she just tears up and looks at him and tells him thank you with eyes full of tears and tells him she was terrified i would turn out like my sisters with for or five boyfriends that give them drugs but the thing is he was a drug addict with no dreams and goles never worked and in the last year i gave him the inspiration and he is a successful businessman drug free with a life
so his family feels the same way and the facts are we are the best thing for each other and have been good for each other
and the laws were made to protect young girls like me from forced marriage and harm and in our case the only harmful thing would us not to be together
and us together was legal for thousands of years
so any help would be great and who do i send letters to to get permission from the courts

snappy120_2 · Posted: Tue May 06, 2008 10:18 pm Post subject:

You can't.
As soon as you turn 16, with your mothers permission, you can legally get married. Although I wouldn't reccomend it. Why rush into it? It's just a bit of paper, the fact you're commited to eachother should mean more. Don't rush into this
x x x

one of few · Guest

i don't want any problems for him it would kill me if anything happened to him he has never harmed me or took advantage of me like every other guy he is my everything

joe310 · Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 1:55 am Post subject:

he should adopt you, not be your bf or hubby

Guest · Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 2:22 am Post subject:

Don't do it.