My daughter and girlfiend

[chub]

Hello all, I am new!

I have a six year old daughter who have not seen that much in her short life, I have just started to see her on a regular basis (after court order) and my girlfriend of 18 months is not dealing with it very well.


She is 22 and I am 38, not that I think that makes a difference. I think she was under the impression that my daughter was never going to appear again in my life (due to the mother being a bitch!) and al was rosy until I got a text from said mother.
Thats was in November 2007 and my girlfriend still finds it very hard to accept that there is someone in my life that I may well love more than her (even if its a differnet kind of love)
She is very jelous of her and even suggested I would go back with her mother and be one big happy family again Thats not going to happen, I love my girlfriend very much and she is the one.

She has not met my daughter yet and I am hoping her insecurities will vanish once she bonds with her. Trouble is its effecting us a lot and she is almost threatening me with an ultimatum that she will not win.

What can I do or say to help things?

[Verve]