help

[joe1987]

i met a girl on the internet last year, we exchanged e-mails for a few months, we never exchanged photos until the week before we met, so we sort of got to know each other before judging each other on looks if u get what i mean. we finally met face to face i was with a group of my mates and she bought a few of hers, we didnt really speak to know each other just said hello etc mainly because it was in a club with loud music etc. a couple of months passed and we never saw each other but exchanged a few texts. then we were in the club on the same night i saw her across the room and i thought OMG shes lovely but im shy and even tho id had a few drinks i still couldnt pick up the courage to say hello, she saw me but never came and said hello. any thoughts on this could it be shes shy too. i know shes started seeing someone and im not sure now whether i feel attracted to her but i would still like to be her friend, its like we know each other but hav never actually spoke. also next time i see her what should i do i think i can manage hello but then what do i say. can u tell im rubbish with girls lol. thanx 4 listening

[staryeyedd]

mmm well next time you see her just say hi, and start talking to her as if you were casual friends. start out safe lol and if it feels comfortable start talking more seriously, maybe about topics you use to talk about, that are more personal. idk i mean theres no harm in wanting to be someones friend, let her know how you feel. and dont be shy.. that will just make things awkward. otherwise you can only guess what your guys friendship could be. good luck

[another guest]

Seeing as you have her email address and phone number, why not send her a note saying hi and re-kindle the conversations, then tell her a place your going to "that isn't so loud", ask her to turn up and have a drink with you...

See what happens from there...

If no show, she's moved on.

If she shows she's curious and as you've stopped the communication she figgered you weren't interested.