WAS HAVING SEX WORTH IT?????

[LOST AND CONFUSED]

my best friends a guy (drew) and lets just say he fits the bad boy roll 100%, he smokes (pot), drinks, and has sex all the time. that just so happens to be the oposit of me i dont do any of those things and were still best friends. we talk to each other about everything and he never preasures me into anything. but about a week ago i was staying the night at his house along with 10 other people(to sum it up it was more like the band geek siting with the crowd of schoolyard bullies except they are all used to me by now because drew is their leader like figure and im alwayse with him) and i have no idea why but i started drinking with them and then i got high with them. i was so messed up by then and all the other people were going to sit outsid and i didnt want to go because i didnt feel like walking all the way out there so drew told everyone that he would stay with me since it was my first time doing all this stuff and he wanted to make sure i was ok..
i remember him laughing at me when everyone had went outside and saying that i was such a light weight. and since i was already laying on his bed he came and layed by me and before i knew it we were in a hard makeout session on his bed and umm.......well we all know how i love to go into detail but im going to leave this part short......we had sex.

i woke up the next morning with the biggest headach and my cellphone ringing as loud as posible and of course it was my mom telling me that she was 5 min away to be outside waiting so i put all my clothes on and grabed all my stuff without telling any body bye (of course they were sleeping though)but still i had to have the act perfect for my mom.

Sooooooooo back to my main problem its been a week and i havent called him and he hasent called me this is the longest ive been away from him since the 5th grade and were now going into the 10th grade. i miss him so much but i dont know what to do. i realy hope we didnt ruin our friendship.
ANY ADVICE!!

SORRY ABOUT THE LONG DETAIL I JUST WANTED EVERYTHING TO BE CLEAR SO I CAN GET GOOD ANSERS THANKS

[elainefr]

I think sex is better with out drugs

[Mountain]

Not enough information to really help you decide.

How much did he pay exactly?

[TonyRockyhara]

Sounds like classic Nutter's Remorse

[Usquanigo]

Just forget about it.

You were both high and drunk. Call him, and act like nothing ever happened and pick up where you left off. You seem like you don't want a friend with benefits relationship, so that's the best way to go, if he asks for a second go, just explain, gently, that you aren't interested in that kind of relationship.

Hopefully he'll be ok with that.

There is nothing wrong with having sex, and yes, it IS better (MUCH better) without drugs or alcohol. So stop worrying. If he gets rude or pissy over this, then you know the truth - that he always just wanted to sleep with you - and in that case he's not really a friend anyway. If he's ok with you not wanting more, then nothing is lost, you just had a wild experience and gained a story to tell.

And hey, if you had fun, or if you are interested in him sexually, then tap him for a booty call anytime you're feeling horny, just stay sober and make sure protection is used to keep you both safe.

It's one of lifes pleasures.

[Here to help]

The best thing to do (and i say this from experience) is to call him, meet up, and talk about it all in person!!!!

Say EVERYTHING that is on your mind and leave nothing unsaid! That way you will both be clear about what you want and can discuss what is going to be best for the future!

The longer you leave it the harder it will be so get on the phone!!

Meet him with an open mind and make sure you say everything you need to say and let him say everything he has to say too.

An experience like (if discussed properly) will bring you closer either as friends or in a relationship.

The best thing to do is to let time decide (thats what I did) see what happens and see how you both feel and discuss everything!!