He'd rather have porn

[Gerry]

need some advice....my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years and we started living together after only 6 months...until we moved in together the sex was AMAZING...then it all changed....he wanted sex less and less...at the same time, i was finding a lot of porn sites on our computer...now after almost a year of this steady decline, i am coming to the end of my rope...we have not had sex since January...we mess around usually once a week thru oral and manual stimulation but intercourse has been a LONG TIME....I LOVE SEX and i can't take it anymore...i have talked to him about it many many many times and nothing changes and everytime we talk it is a different excuse...i thought in the beginning it had a lot to do with moving in together and his adjustment to that but it has been long enough for him to come to grips with the living situation.....i DO NOT think he is cheating on me and every other aspect of our relationship is wonderful but the SEX...i tried putting a parent control on the pc and that was the final straw for him...he is very upset and he feels i don't trust him...please respond..talking to him hasn't worked and either have very blatent hints (ex. parent control)... this situation makes me feel insecure...please someone make me feel better about this...i am driving myself crazy

[Jules]

If you have talked about this with him and he still doesn't want to change then obviuosly he can't care about how you feel. It is possible he has become addicted to porn this can happen and its just like a drug, does he download from the internet alot because this can be asure fire way of deciding