Should you go for what you want...or just leave it and move

missingyou · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 03 Apr 2005 Posts: 7

If u really love someone and all u want is them back and think u have a good chance mabey of gettin them back..should you go after them and really tell them how u fell or just lay off and move on..
i can relate to this situation...anyone have ne answers?[/u][/quote][/code]

Riz_1980 · Posted: Sun Apr 03, 2005 10:38 am Post subject:

I`m in the same situation, i really want to be with her but she needs space and time.

I will love her until the day i die but there seems to be nothing i can do or say to change the situation.

I told her how i felt but it didnt change anything, but she knows that im here for her.

Best thing you can do it be open with your feelings and dont be affraid to ask.

If you love them then tell them!

Dont waste time.

Hope this helps.

Riz

fan · Posted: Sun Apr 03, 2005 12:52 pm Post subject:

why did it end in the first place? we only tend to see the good bits when we look back on how things were but something must have not been right for you to split think about those things and decide do you really want it again

missingyou · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 03 Apr 2005 Posts: 7

hey..thanks..
its kinda hard to open my feelings to him..since its been like almost 5 monthes since the break up..but your right i am going to have to do it sooner or later...thank you so much..
I have never been so scard to do something in my life..i am so scard that he will just think its stupid or something...I am going to let him know how i feel this up comming friday... :oops: wish me good luck...But if this does not work i am going to have to move on right..??
ALSO there is a little problem..in 3 monthes he is leaving for montreal..to stay there and take courses and i will be down here away from him 12 hours away..i dont kno if it would work...Thats also another reason i am scard..i dont kno what to do now...i just want him so bad..i think i am still going to tell him how i feel and see what happens??

thanks again... :wink:

lily.27 · Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 9:24 pm Post subject:

if you really love someone that much go for it, sometimes you dont get a second chance at love but when you do you have got to try and make it work.
i lost the love of my life and can never have him back but thats my fault ive dealt with that. dont live your life with regret. good luck x

missingyou · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 03 Apr 2005 Posts: 7

Hey....

thank ya so much...i told him the other nite that i still had a thing for him and he told me he still had a thing for me...but i am so scard to get hurt!
Its so hard...Love is such a powerful thing its hurts when its gone and its scary to take back..!

does anyone have any storys they would like to share? If so go ahead
thank u xox