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[joeybagof]

My x girl and i have been hanging out again for 3 months. we broke up 2 years ago but have sex and hang out 3 times a week. I didnt like the fact that she was on and off all the time. Not returning calls, here one day gone another etc. So twice i tried to seperate myself from her nicely and say its not good formus to talk bcause she is seeing someone. She cries and begs me not to do it. We spoke yesterday and made plans for tonite as she basically begged me to hang out. This morning on my way to work i see she slept over the guys house she has been seeing and then lies about it when she calls me today. tonite we are going to dinner and not to sure how to handle it. I have some revenge and mean feelings inside. should i be mean or be overlly nice and go to dinner?

[Guest]

at dinner, tell her it's over. Tell her to give you space. In fact, tell her to leave you alone. Don't call, don't message, hell, don't even think about you. Then when you get home, block her IMs, delete her phone numbers, and stop taking any of her calls. She lied to you constantly, and if being with her for so long hasn't changed anything, nothing will.

I broke up with my ex for a very similiar reason, to be honest. She constantly lied to me about her relationship with her ex-fiance and one of my coworkers. In fact, she lied to them about me as well. Of course, little did she know that I'm actually friends with the coworker so I found out about that, and I spoke to the ex-fiance a couple times and in the end we came to realize that we were all just entertainment for her.

She didn't care about lying to us. She had no compunction what so ever about lying to our faces about what happened. But when we all went to confront her about it at the same time, she ran away.

Your girl might not be as black hearted, but what she's doing is pretty selfish.

For your own sake, tell her off. Take on whatever mannerisms you want, but stick to your guns about it.