WHEN YOU LIKE WHAT YOU SEE!

[Lovealways]

Hi guys:

I'm very curious about something. Is licking of lips, biting of lips (for a man) is a sign that the man likes what he sees? Nothing disgusting.

You see what happened to me this morning on my way to work is that the guy I have a crush on was looking at me (I'll say that I have a sexy dress and was showing some skin) and licked his lips while looking. Usually, I would wear my suit but this Friday I decided to show some shape LOL LOL LOL

Is it something you would do?

Also, I was reading the post about men liking fat, skinny, big women... so on and so forth... What about a woman who takes care of herself, exercise, eat right, because she doesn't want to be fat. Does that mean she has less chance to find a man (black)? Does the personality counts for something?

Don't be shy to answer back!

Later,

Love

[a man with out fear]

No I don't do any of that. Yes I think personality counts for all lot in my eyes more important than looks. Whats the point in go with someone who looks great but is going to use you and throw you away when she gets bored.

[what's the downside?]

while it is true that there is someone for everyone and it doesn't matter what shape, we have a culture that puts a premium on certain types for our collective adoration (you've noticed the fawning over the details of stars' lives?). SO, offhand, i'd say that a woman (or man) who takes care of themselves, makes an attempt to be attractive and has a good personality has a greater chance of being noticed. what if anything happens beyond that is the whim of other's insecurities as much as the stars above. BUT, i notice that a great many "how to meet a girl (or guy)" type books usually suggest loking at the laundomat or foodmarket. these are places where one isn't usually dressed up and acts more casual. personally, i've always had a thought that first dates should be done in bunny-slippers and curlers.

[Guest]

lol@bunny slippers

I never noticed if I lick my lips when I see someone I find attractive, but I do make eye contact. I suppose if he's staring at your breasts (not that any guy would ever do something like that) you'd be less confused about his motivation.

If all else fails, ask him.

[Maggie_Moo]

[Loki]

Or dry lips!