The best part would seem to be someone else having to entertain her for a while, leaving you free to do something more interesting, like fantasy baseball.
Still, after reading this thread, Im going to consider encouraging my gf to find someone on the side, at least during football season, but not if she insists on my watching in which case Id still be missing the game.
Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 7:00 am Post subject: Re: wife watching
spin101 wrote:
hi paul4444,I must say my first time watching my wife kissing and playing with another guy was very hard.I was so mad I left her at the party and she got a taxi home.That was 10 years ago.We talked about it and she asked if I would watch or just be there and listen.Well that hooked me after I sat outside the bedroom and was able to listen to it all. Now I even join in on some of the hot ones we have.We get to do it about about everyother year now and I still can not tell you want makes it so hot of a thing to see or do with her.We will both be 40 this year and she told me would like to try a guy once a month for the entire year if it is ok with me.She tells me it will be her last if I let her.Tell you at the end of the year how things are.
paul4444 wrote:
I have read accounts here from men and woman about wife watching or sharing and am interested to know how one can take fantasising about it to actually doing it.
Does the woman in the partnership have a stronger sexual appetite than her partner and the husband accepts another man in the relationship?
Or is it the man who encourages his wife because he wants to see her being pleasured by another man?
I would welcome views from other men and women who have actually participated in wife sharing, how they got started, whether they used a friend, or whether they prefered a discreet stranger from the swinging sites on the internet.
Also, how does one go about suggesting this to ones own wife?
So are you going to let her have a guy a month. I think that would be a real turn on. Who gets to pick the guy you or her, or is it a joint decision.
Yes I've done it and I would not stop at just 12 too much fun.