Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 3:11 am Post subject: my girlfriend -advice please
hey i have a girlfriend and shes a gemini, at least i think so. (her bday is june 19) nd she is realy rowdy.w well not liek crashing stuff or major things but she likes to instigate things. like last halloween we were with freinds anf she suggested that we throw toilet paper and eggs at houses and just scare people, like run behind them and scream and styuff. and someone called the cops and we were hiding and running from them. she likes doing fun things like that.she is so fun to be around and erything. what concerns me though is that i dont want to lose her. so do u think shell leave me for a dumb reason, like just because she doesn't like my hair or something, for another guy?
also, im a scorpio.. and alot of things say that we arent compatible but we get along just fine. what do you think about this m,atch?
Many people like you;re girl friend dont want to commit long term, they just want fun, and once she gets bored with you, she might leave you. Maybe now she wants a guy who is going to do crazy stuff instead of a man who waits for her to act crazy. She sounds a little immature so give her time, if its fun she wants, and not love, and if you dont feel that way. Let her go.
Lucky guy!
Gemini women will amaze people at times. I knew one, rowdy sometimes, a quiet, calm little thing other times. There really is no "taming" her I don't think. She'll just convince you to do what shes doing, and it will all be good. The good thing is, they are pretty open minded. So even if you're mysterious, shy, and sometimes downright boring Scorpio, she'll be cool with it and you'll open up to her.
She won't leave you as long as you keep her, um, not bored. And don't become a weirdo who talks about marriage and babies at this time and age. (Its obvious you're a teenager). She'll just freak out and become unenthusiastic. And then she'll dump you. Pretty simple.
Agree with everything said above ^^ I might want to add that Geminis of both sexes need mental stimulation as well. Winning them over with clever wit, or knowledge of unusal subjects will keep them interested.
They have to fall in love with you "mentally" first, generally speaking. But they are a bit flighty, especially when young. They are never underhanded though, they just tend to flit about like butterflies. Gemini girls can be especially fickled- there are just so many people, and interesting things to catch their eye. But if there is any earth in her chart, she will appreciate your steady nature, as it calms her own.
That is very observant of you The Rad One. Gemini is not a sign that likes to get too "deep". "Weird", may not be too bad, but boring Never! Scorpio is the king of "deep". So you may need to watch this and try to keep things light, friendly, and fun.
You may try to do a little detective work on her, and ask her what her birthday is, if you don't want to ask her for year of birth, just find out her age, and figure it out yourself. There are many books available that have charts that will provide you with her other planetary information (although rising sign would require the exact time of birth).
Take a good look at her Moon, and her Mars, and it may give you clues to what she may be attracted to in a man, sometimes a preference known to her, and sometimes an unconsciencous attraction.