handling anal

[curious]

okay girls, please be honest. how many of you actually like Anal sex. i've tried it a few times and the pain to me almost makes me nauseous. my guy says the majority of girls like it and take it(yes, i'm aware he's probably just saying that to make me give in) but i've always wondered who shares my feelings on this one. it honestly turns me on to think about it, but i just can't stand the pain.

[narelle in australia]

Anal sex like oral sex is a taboo subject to some women.you either try it or don't.you will either enjoy it or won't.everyone should try new things else how you know what it like ?i was like you,saw it on porn movie at girls night out,tried it,hurt like hell with then boyfriend[aged 19].now 30 with more experience and boyfriend whom i can talk to about sex,without fear /jealousy or shame about past sexual experiences/boyfriends .i learnt that 1 bad experience shouldn't put you off.Anal sex needs a gentle,loving partner,Lubricant a must,finger and Anal stimulation[a banana in a condom was way i learnt what Anal sex would feel like ,a lot of my friends have tried this "home alone " to test sensation].you must relax Anal muscle as being tense/nervous will cause pain.fact. Anal sex is a thing all men want to try and will with or without you being involved.better to try with a person you love than him try elsewhere.try it once,if you hate it say so[at least his fantasy and respect for you are achieved].
you find the thought of Anal sex erotic but doing it painful,try lignocaine gel applied to bum[pornstars lubricate with this]numbs anus but sensitive zones inside Anal passage still bring orgasm.
not for everyone,but if you want to try it.go for it.

[steffi]

i find this enjoyable,if other people have a problem.ask them where their husband is ?

[CarrieDoway]

Whoa, steady on, I don't think the fellas on here would be too thrilled to think that you consider em all capable of being cheating barstewards if you don't give in to Anal. Yes, I think most fellas do want to try it but I also believe most fellas in a committed relationship would not go looking outside the relationship if its something their partners weren't comfortable with.

[obblebadda]

[leisa]

feel sorry that a women watches big bn.but never treid sanal. code they use !!

[CarrieDoway]

leisa..say again???

[Randyusa]

im not sure about the majority of men, but i know I dont like Anal sex, has no attraction to me. Currently 90pct of the men i know, dont like or want it either. Not sure what to tell you about taking it... but i do know women who love it.. but just as not all women love it, not all men do either.

[jessica d]

must be an english thing then,as i don't know any englishman who would turn down Anal sex with a woman,in fact haven't met many females who haven't tried it at least once.maybe english experiment more.

[Fisicx]

Anal sex can be great if you are ready to give and recieve. If a guy suggests it then ask if he is willing to take it as well. If not then why should you submit to them.

I'm fully hetero but I do like Anal stimulation, it has now reached the point where we manage to fill just about every orifice.

[Tony]

[Fatlisa]

With a StrapOn.

[Tony]

[Guest]

Not all men want Anal. That is some myth that keeps getting perpetuated probably due to porn saturation. I have several male friends who to my surprise even, have expressed zero interest in doing that with their wives or girlfriends. I know one couple where the wife wants it and the husband doesn't. And my own boyfriend isn't even interested although he says he's willing to go there if I want to.

[NJ]

I really like it! use fingers first, lots of lube and go gentle! i found if u try it in the doggy position it hurt like hell!! try it in the spoons pos or u on top, altho spoons is the least painful! And once u get into it it feels goood! Also try clitoral stimulation similtaneously, lessens the pain, and an orgasm during Anal is yummy!!

Enjoy it! But don't feel pressured into doing it!