JeffB3000 wrote:Well I've come close to having a girlfriend and that was only last week. I've joined Match.com and Dating Direct
Trust me, Usquanigo, the look works, heh!
It's pure comedy gold how blind you are to reality, even when you state it, you still can't see it.
I wore a skirt when I flew to New York and girls couldnt stop staring at me

. One group of girls I met wanted to take my photo, that was so cool.
People stop and stare at accidents and train wrecks too. And everyone loves a good freak show. Used to be a part of society like the circus, in fact.

I chilled out and didn't want to rush anything. One of the girls, Melissa, gave me her number, but when I rang it once in NY, it was an answerphone for a bus company. Perhaps she works there. I'll call her again later when I'm back in the UK.
You got the fake number, and ate it up hook-line-and-sinker. There's a
reason you got the fake number dude, it's a common practice.

Back to the skirt thing. I even changed in the airport loo to a tight pencil skirt before I boarded. It was just below my knee, but I think people could see my
knickers line

. I should have worn a
Thong. The flight was good, but Customs gave me hell and treated me like I'm a terrorist.
That's what happens as a black guy.
You F****** worthless asshole. Always playing the race card. So typical. Did you call up Jesse Jackson too?
If ANYone is racially profiled in airports today, it's habibs and hasiims, not tyrone and leroy. But when you have someone who's clearly a freak, well, surprise surprise, what else are they supposed to do? You're unstable, so god only knows what else you might be planning or trying to do.
But in reality, I bet you weren't hassled the least little bit more than anyone else, you just can't resist playing that damn race card at the drop of a hat.
Women were staring at me, I know that's what they want.
As noted previously, you're a freak, they were enjoying the show - and quite possibly wondering where they could get the item of clothing in question for themselves. And that's all it was. You demonstrated that above in your own post even. lol
People like you Usquanigo are keen to take the p!ss out of bold folk like me
People like me? So what kind of person am I then? Tell me a little about myself. Here's a hint, I've littered these fora with info about me, what I do, what I wear, and where I stand and why. Are you going to pick up that gauntlet I dropped, or just sit here and cry like a bitch?
The trip took my mind off not being able to find work, but it's tough for a brotha.
No it's not. Rev Jesse and Malcom X and Al Sharpton have all instituted racism as a gov't policy, giving preferential treatment to people of the black persuasion. Even if "you" are under qualified for the position, companies have to hire you (even if other, more qualified applicants are in the queue), if they are below a certain percentage of employees.
However, dress codes are an easy way to dismiss someone. Like showing up in pajamas. It signals that you are not serious about the job, or yourself, and they will pass you over, no matter how qualified you are, or how badly they need to meet quota (and it's the same if not worse for people who seem like they are not all there, such as a guy wearing a skirt or something like that).
It was the last of my Redundancy from my previous employer who I shan't mention, but they claim I made people feel uncomfortable.
Uh, duh! How can you possibly still be alive and breathing if you can't see something so obvious and simple?
I'm suing their ass, and Tribunals are looking into it for me. I'm gonna make a fortune when my cheque comes in from the Court Service.
We'll see. But I wouldn't bet on it. If you failed to meet dress code, or were getting complaints, their hands would be tied and they would be well within thier rights to do so. And it's far too easy to make it look that way after the fact too.
Instead of cussin', you should try it. Where do you live, I'll come over and we can make a day of it, mate. You'll wonder why you never started wearing skirts earlier
Sorry, I don't hang out with guys who wear
skirts. Besides which, you'd scream like a bitch if you had to go anywhere in my car, or when you set foot into the range. Even a soft 9mm would be too much for you, I'm sure.
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Usquanigo wrote:I'm not going to repeat myself incessantly here. If you want to have a discussion about the background and reasons, surprise me, step up. Get registered, re-read this thread, and the fashion freedom thread on the other side, THEN come back abd talk to me. Otherwise, stop wasting our time. To do anything other than that is simply being a whining cry-baby who isn't willing to face reality. If you really are the "man" you claim to be, then man up.
Time to put up or shut up. Take up the challenge (to the letter) or go away.