i caught my son wear nail polsih/makeup

eye liner · Guest

hi tonight i caught my son painting his nails he is 15 years old and he was wear makeup. he does not know yet what should i do ? he ask me if he cloud have his ears pierced in each ear. i siad we will yes. is my son gay.

he was in his sister room during her tennis practie he was painting his nails blue and was wearing makeup. he did not know i was home i ran to the store and was going to watch the last 30 min of my daughters practies
how do i know if he was wear panties. how do i know if my daughter knows about this how should i tell him i saw him.

Guest · Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2006 5:44 pm Post subject:

Just beacuse your son was painting his nails and wearing make up does not mean he has any tendencies towards being gay. For years many boys have had the desire to try feminine things such as you describe with no long term effects. There is a big difference between boys and men who cross dress in female clothing and accessories and those who are gay. Most cross dressers are completely heterosexual while some gay men are very masculine. Many people try to equate cross dressing with homosexulaity, but the two are completely different and there is no particular relationship between the two.

Boys with pierced ears are not fairly common, so your son asking to have his ears pierced means only that he would like to wear earrings. The fact that he asked and you said he could have his ears pierced indicates you have a healthy relationship with your son. At 15 it's important to keep the communication open with him.

You should have a talk with your son about not using other people's personal things without their permission. Sooner or later your daughter is going to find something out of place in her room, which could lead to a major confrontation. Better to nip this in the bud before the confrontation arises. Tell your son your saw him in his sister's room and that he should not be in there when she is not home, but do not say that you saw him with make up and nail polish. Instead, ask him what he was doing in her room. If you can catch your son any place other than his sister's room while he is wearing make up or nail polish you can comment on how it looks on him and ask him why he is wearing it. If his interest in these things seems serious you might offer to buy him some make up and nail polish of his own.

wickedwitch · Posted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 3:40 pm Post subject:

He is probably going through a Goth stage, or just seeing what it looks like, dont worry about it just yet and I wouldnt make an issue out of it either, you know how kids retaliate. Just let it pan out.

MatureGirl · Guest

You have to talk to him and encourage him to do what makes he happy. If it is to wear female clothes, go with him, let him dresses what he wants, at least at home. We all now how good is to wear female things!! If our sons wants to wear it, why would we stop them????

eye liner · Guest

My son is not a F***ing wierdo. you have promblems what are you sexist. i talked to my son he told me he likes to wear nail polish and make up so we went out and bought him nail polish and make up he wore his nail polish to school clear and all the girls told him that it is about time guys wore nail polish so the next day wore some mascara, eyeshadow, eyeliner, and green nail polish we got his ears pierced that day all the girls like how he wears nail polish ,makeup, and earrings. heven got ask to get his nails done with 10 girls.

calmdown · Posted: Sun Oct 15, 2006 4:37 pm Post subject:

it could be a phase he is going through,
whats the worst thing for you, to find out he is gay, will you be able to handle it, what does his dad say about it?

eye liner · Guest

his dad died when he was a baby.

theredharvest · Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2006 11:03 am Post subject:

i have male friends who wear nail polish and there not gay

Skeptic Guest · Guest

I don't believe much of this thread is true. Does anyone believe much of this thread is true?

monosodium · Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2006 5:16 pm Post subject:

You need to have a chat with your son.

Tell him you saw him and that you're ok with it if he wants to do that. But that he should respect her privacy by not going into his sisters room when she's out.

joegood · Guest

Hey, I used to try on my sisters panties, bras, slips and dresses and even sometimes her really feminine silky nightgowns. I did it purely for sexual excitement...he most likely will reach that point as well. Remember silky nylon panties and a slip against the male parts feels much different then on a female who has her sexual sensations on the inside. The silky rubbing of the slip against the panties will arouse him...it can't help but do so . i suggest yu take him to the mall and let him purchase his own lingerie complete with bra, breasts inserts, panties, slips stockings (if he wears them) maybe babydoll PJ's a dress or two a couple skirts and tops and some female shoes. Then buy him his own makeup and go home show him how to dress like a 15 year old girl. help him with his makeup...support his transvestism and let him enjoy himself. When doing the laundry and yu see stains on his panties just remember he is experiencing unique sensations and feelings. Help hi develop into a feminine person.

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Id ask him if he wants any more help on discovering his feminine side, if not leave him alone.

Guest · Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 11:25 pm Post subject:

Yea, I love wearing girls panties and lingerie, my C*** gets so hard when I even think about slidding into a pair of silky sheer panties and I love to go to my sisters room and try them on and then masterbate into the crotch and put them back uin her drawer. I have masterbated and cum into a crotch of one pair of her panties like for a week and let them dry finally put them back and I know when she was going to put them on because I her her say something to mom about the washer and her panties being hard. I was so turned on by this. let you son enjoy the soft silky lingerie against his penis he will love you more than you can imagine yum yum

Guest · Posted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 9:59 pm Post subject:

I am a N A M B L A member and would be glad to assist your son in any way I can!

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