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fluffybunnysal
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 Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 12:33 pm Post subject: i hate men |
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| my first b/f dumped me, my second and last one scrounged off me all the time and i ended up leavin him cos he beat me up. its made me feel really good about myself. NOT. better off without men i can do exactley what i want |
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karrin
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| Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 1:10 pm Post subject: |
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| For real??? Maybe you'll feel different down the line |
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the riddler
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| Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 1:22 pm Post subject: Re: i hate men |
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| fluffybunnysal wrote: |
| my first b/f dumped me, my second and last one scrounged off me all the time and i ended up leavin him cos he beat me up. its made me feel really good about myself. NOT. better off without men i can do exactley what i want |
I'm not having a go - but how (and why) do women find and go out with these people??? Is it a fear of being alone or something? I just don't understand... |
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wickedwitch
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| Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 1:40 pm Post subject: |
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Geez I wouldn't like em either.  |
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boingo
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| Posted: Sat Sep 30, 2006 1:57 pm Post subject: Re: i hate men |
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| fluffybunnysal wrote: |
| my first b/f dumped me, my second and last one scrounged off me all the time and i ended up leavin him cos he beat me up. its made me feel really good about myself. NOT. better off without men i can do exactley what i want |
I know it must be very hard for you to believe this right now, but we're not all like that.
I follow a strict morral of equality for everything. No scrounging off each other. Total honesty and comumication are the key elements, I believe. |
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Mrs_Ephgrave
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| Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2006 2:36 pm Post subject: |
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| Not all men are like this it's just unfortunate that we have to find out the hard way. There are a lot of good men out there and i've found one after being cheated on several times and beaten by my ex husband. My husband now is an absolute diamond and i wouldn't swap him for the world. Don't lose faith hun, there is one out there for you who will treat you the way you deserve. |
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noodles
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| Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2006 3:39 pm Post subject: |
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| yep i wreckon it how we pick em, and dont be under any illusion, im gay and believe me there are lots of shitty women out there too. |
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karrin
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People are people regardless of gender..... I could never say I hate men and trust me I've met some bow-wows in my time. In saying that some women have been complete fukk-ups as well.
I know some beautiful kind hearted men and women
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noodles
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+1 karrin  |
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TheJudge
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| Posted: Sat Oct 28, 2006 8:27 am Post subject: |
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| +1 karrin |
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Trent
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| Posted: Sat Oct 28, 2006 8:48 am Post subject: |
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| donnt give up fluffy,i can assure u not all men are like that.xxx |
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JennyT
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| I think it's a cosmic joke. Men & women just don't seem compatible so often, yet we yearn for each other so much. Someone somewhere is having a laugh at us... |
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Fatlisa
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| I don't |
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canuck69
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| I think it's a cosmic joke. Men & women just don't seem compatible so often, yet we yearn for each other so much. Someone somewhere is having a laugh at us... |
i agree |
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Curvey_Brunette
FemaleFirst Chatter (200+ Posts)
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| Posted: Thu Nov 02, 2006 2:50 pm Post subject: Re: i hate men |
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| the riddler wrote: |
| I'm not having a go - but how (and why) do women find and go out with these people??? Is it a fear of being alone or something? I just don't understand... |
Relationships with those dynamics are usually co-dependant ones.
Each person 'feeds' from the other in destructive ways.
The aggressive partner is usually very insecure, has feelings of low self worth and often doesn't really care about the person they're with, they're just a convenience to them, an easy target to take out their frustrations on.
The abused partner usually spends lots of time alone and constantly seeks acceptance from their abusive partner which in turn is seen as "irritating"
Often, (because they don't get the attention they seek), they will find ways to "wind up" their abusive partner as any attention is better than none at all.
It's a vicious circle really and one that takes a hell of a lot of effort to break.
May I point out that domestic violence and abusive relationships aren't just confined to male to female abuse, there are many relationships where the female is abusive towards a man and has the advantage as men aren't supposed to hit women. |
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