help plz

[brunettebaby]

hi im 16 n me bfs 20 not dat da ages matters
i love me bf ta pieces but i always be nasty ta him n we argue quite alot n it is coz of me
i do trust him but thers bin times wen i havent coz like girls use ta ring n txt him al da time but he sed dat he dint no who they was n i dnt no if hes lyin or not
also his brother tries ta make trouble between us both quite alot n i dont no wot ta thnk weather its his brother bein stupid r weather its him lyin
i dont wanna split up wiv him n i no we wont but i dnt no wot ta thnk
iv spoke ta him bout it but he jus sez dat he loves me n dat he wudnt do anythin ta hurt me
wil some1 plz help
thnx

[annettecurtain]

Hi I’m 16 and my boyfriend's 20, not that the age difference matters.
I love my boyfriend very much, but I am always very nasty to him and we argue quite a lot- which is usually because of me.
I do trust him, but there have been times when I found it difficult because girls used to ring and text him all the time, but he claimed that he did not know who they were. I don't know if he's lying or not.
Also, his brother tries to cause trouble between us quite a lot. I don't know what to think. I'm not sure whether it’s his brother being stupid, or whether it’s him lying.
I don’t want to split up with him and I know we won't, but I don't know what to think
I spoke to him about it, but he just tells me that he loves me and that he wouldn't do anything to hurt me
Will someone please help?
Thank you


I think your primary concern should be to learn how to speak(he might even like you more if you do)
I think my primary concern should be to find something better to do

[spirit-of-tao]

sounds like good advice annette, but don't mince your words next time !