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Postby lolly1982 on Tue Dec 05, 2006 6:06 pm

. wrote:a sound that i accidently forgot to mention is that holloring did occur occasionally. it wasn't as common as moaning, just as grunting wasn't as common as moaning. but holloring isn't screaming. the holloring did seem associated with being more than filled. sometimes the holloring seemed associated with an orgasm. i can't describe it in a way to prove i know it was size related, but will say it was a fierce carrying on that sounded like some pain was mixed in.

so you're saying that extra girth doesn't equal extra moaning or louder moaning for you, and you're saying long length doesn't equal any kind of extra sound for you. that a guy can push your bottom to it's limit and that creates nothing extra from you?


and no its what a man can do thats important not the size of his todger lol, why are you so hung up on it? lol so to speak

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Postby Sam_oz on Wed Dec 06, 2006 1:08 am

typically the ones who talk about it the most are the ones who have the inferiority complex

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Postby Guest on Wed Dec 06, 2006 9:15 am

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. wrote:a sound that i accidently forgot to mention is that holloring did occur occasionally. it wasn't as common as moaning, just as grunting wasn't as common as moaning. but holloring isn't screaming. the holloring did seem associated with being more than filled. sometimes the holloring seemed associated with an orgasm. i can't describe it in a way to prove i know it was size related, but will say it was a fierce carrying on that sounded like some pain was mixed in.

so you're saying that extra girth doesn't equal extra moaning or louder moaning for you, and you're saying long length doesn't equal any kind of extra sound for you. that a guy can push your bottom to it's limit and that creates nothing extra from you?


and no its what a man can do thats important not the size of his todger lol, why are you so hung up on it? lol so to speak


we're talking about whether women are more vocal when filled more. to answer your question though, there is a thread called Why Are Men So Obsessed About Penis Size. It's located in the Just For Men section. i don't know if you've read it yet. a few good posts may can be found in it. Here is a recent post from it that makes sense:


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I do agree that men think about their penises and many may wish their members were different sizes, but not to the extent those thoughts become obsessions, merely to the extent a normal person may wish he were taller, shorter, fatter or thinner.


probaby true for most men. on the other side of the coin most women may have thought about the bigger dick, but it doesn't much matter to them in such a way that they would go around thinking about it. but even some guys that don't obsess about size become a suspicious when they hear a woman say she doesn't care about size at all, for like you said even those guys have an inclination to believe a bit more could enhance sex. combine that with it being known
women have a tendency to too often contradict themselves when they say things. penis size subject aside, we can agree that women change their minds often, correct? even women admit they change their minds often. what causes that changing of mind on a regular basis? men sense that women don't really know themselves what they want when it comes to many things. so, obsessed or not, since many men are already inclined to think a bigger penis would be better, men don't completely trust a woman that says size doesn't matter at all. men can believe that size isn't important to her, but when she says it doesn't count at all, and knowing how uncertain women turn out to be in other ways, and since men sense size does matter, it's logical to not be 100% certain she knows herself. men sense a big guy that knows how to use it could rock her world better. some women become upset with men for thinking that way, when actually all men are doing is thinking what men's instincts say is so, and the way women have shown that they will change their minds then why should men have good reason to completely trust women that say size doesn't matter. men trust their instincts more than the words of women. instincts are in place for a reason, no? instincts say that women who say bigger isn't an enhancement are lying unless perhaps she has a small vagina, or she has become psychologically turned off by a bigger penis for some reason - she could resent the power over her that it respresents to men, or she may have been impaled by a big one that didn't know how to use it well, or she may simply be in denial since denial on various subjects is something people do all the time, or she may simply not really know herself what she wants, as was mentioned already.

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Postby mostirreverent on Thu Dec 07, 2006 7:50 am

It maybe an aesthetic issue or one of showers vs. growers. I have never considered it in terms of sex.
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Postby Guest on Thu Dec 07, 2006 11:05 am

I like to growl like a lion. :twisted:

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Postby x_megan_x on Thu Dec 07, 2006 1:40 pm

I'm generally quiet during sex, but I'll let out an odd moan occasionally.
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Postby lolly1982 on Thu Dec 07, 2006 2:15 pm

try and be a little louder its suprising how much it actually aids an orgasm ya know :wink:

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Postby blondiexxx on Thu Dec 07, 2006 2:15 pm

i can be kinda loud but i also do it for my and my bfs benefit cause lets face it its all about the noises lol
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Postby x_megan_x on Thu Dec 07, 2006 4:09 pm

lolly1982 wrote:try and be a little louder its suprising how much it actually aids an orgasm ya know :wink:


I've never had an orgasm :( I can only make noise when its unvoluntary, I don't understand how women can make alot of noise!!
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Postby lolly1982 on Thu Dec 07, 2006 7:12 pm

what dya mean megan youve never had an orgasm through sex?????

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Postby mostirreverent on Sun Dec 10, 2006 8:54 am

lolly1982 wrote:try and be a little louder its suprising how much it actually aids an orgasm ya know :wink:


being vocal make you concentrate one what it happening and is like a positive feedback loop in that it causes a reverberation of those sensations. I think it would help many women that have a hard time coming.
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Postby Guest on Tue Dec 12, 2006 1:57 am

lolly1982 wrote:try and be a little louder its suprising how much it actually aids an orgasm ya know :wink:


if a woman must "try" to be louder i would wager that he isn't putting it to her as best as can be, and she just has a natural tendency to be loud with just about any guy. indeed it sounds like you are dcescribing sex with an average fit. if big meat and technique was really being grinded down in a woman she wouldn't have a choice in silence or vocal. it would be VOCAL.

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Postby mostirreverent on Tue Dec 12, 2006 5:57 am

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lolly1982 wrote:try and be a little louder its suprising how much it actually aids an orgasm ya know :wink:


if a woman must "try" to be louder i would wager that he isn't putting it to her as best as can be, and she just has a natural tendency to be loud with just about any guy. indeed it sounds like you are dcescribing sex with an average fit. if big meat and technique was really being grinded down in a woman she wouldn't have a choice in silence or vocal. it would be VOCAL.


not so. both are of the mind, but men seem better able to be of the body while women for whatever reason are not always so inclined. yes, there are times my head may not be into it 100 percent, but most times it is not a consideration. i think women begin the process in there heads.
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Postby Guest on Tue Dec 12, 2006 12:52 pm

mostirreverent wrote:
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lolly1982 wrote:try and be a little louder its suprising how much it actually aids an orgasm ya know :wink:


if a woman must "try" to be louder i would wager that he isn't putting it to her as best as can be, and she just has a natural tendency to be loud with just about any guy. indeed it sounds like you are dcescribing sex with an average fit. if big meat and technique was really being grinded down in a woman she wouldn't have a choice in silence or vocal. it would be VOCAL.


not so. both are of the mind, but men seem better able to be of the body while women for whatever reason are not always so inclined. yes, there are times my head may not be into it 100 percent, but most times it is not a consideration. i think women begin the process in there heads.


some truth to what you say, but you are incorrect to think size plays no role. in strong relationhips size can play the least role, but even then it can have some affect. have you ever watched gangbang porn. i'm not talking about where two guys do a woman at the same time. i'm talking about where several guys take turns with a woman. and i'm also talking about where the woman isn't some professional porn actress that will fake it. i'm talking about several guys that are not usually in porn, and women that are not usually in porn. i've seen quite a number of those before, where the men line up taking turns, and the women make hardly any sound, if any, and often not much of a face, if any, with the 6 inch long x 1.75 inch thick across, but if a guy with much more happens to be amongst the bunch of guys, when it becomes his turn the expessions and sounds the women make becomes much more evident. once again, i'm talking about plain amateur porn, and the scenes are of a dry unsouped up nature. sure, love plays a major role in anything, but to say size has no bearing whatsoever is just wishful thinking. sure, those scenes i described are not relationships, but it shows that when stripped down to the nuts and bolts size has an affect. the less factors involved the more of an affect it has. so what you say is true, but not totally. love or not, a woman being worked over by a big one will react more intensely. mnd over matter sounds nice, and it's true, but it's not the complete picture.

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Postby Guest on Tue Dec 12, 2006 7:23 pm

I have the old lady next door giving me evil stares the morning after :lol:

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