is it love or lust.

Guest · Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 3:58 am Post subject: is it love or lust.

hi their. first i will like to introduce myself. i am a 19 year old man who has a great personality who can be the bravest person and at the same time very scared when it comes to talking to the ladies. the problem is that i have met this totally awesome girl at my workplace, a bar to be exact. dam she is hot. many girls at work sees me as a one in a million gentleman. i get this a lot. this is because i extremely respect the ladies and i threat them like my sister. but this girl at my work place causes me to break all the rules. this girl is sooo hot Very Happy

any time i see her all i think about is sex Twisted Evil

. any time i think of her i think sex Twisted Evil

, any time i hear her name i think sex Twisted Evil

, its like a fixation between her and sex. this is the first time this has ever happen to me. i am not a thirst dog nor will i ever be one, but this girl, man she is driving me crazy. i think that she like me. other girls at my work place tells me that she is always looking at me in a lustful way Shocked

. i so much want to do it with he Wink

r. is this love or lust. Question

please give me you advice before i fall to insanity Sad

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elliott20 · Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 5:16 am Post subject: .

hmm... let's see... the only thing you said about this girl so far is that she's hot... and that she directs all the blood from your brain to your penis... and that she's hot... and that you can't stop thinking about porking her in the supply shed... and that she's hot... and that you want to do nasty with her... and you wonder if this is lust or love? Do you REALLY need somebody to tell you?

Guest · Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 6:15 am Post subject: reply, "is it love or lust"

ok then i admit that it is lust Mad

, what if i want to be with her also. i can't simple tell her "hey baby i want to bang you!!" Embarassed

it won't be right, even if she feels the same way that i do ( their is a 25% chance of that). i will NEVER do that. what should be my approach. i want to have a relationship with her, but i have a very strong felling i will have her moaning one day. man this is the first time this has happen what should a confused fella do

. i don't want to portray myself as a thirsty animal. thats just not me. dude she even offer to take me home, i said no while my hearth was saing DO IT. it sure fell like a kick in the crutch saying no Sad

. i dont know her that well, pluss i dont want to take advantage of the situation, i am too much of a gentleman. please help me. sould i just back off or go and ask her out.

Beanie · You Go Girl (100+ Posts) Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 131

I think love and lust go together really well! if you are going to have a relationship then it is good to get her moaning also! Relationships normally start with the physical, then move into something deeper as you get to know each other. So just ask her out. but don't sleep with her straight away, get to know her better first so she knows you are looking for more than just sex. good luck!

elliott20 · Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 1:42 pm Post subject: .

well, you could always start with asking her out to dinner or maybe dancing or something and see where it goes from there.