Dreaming about other men

[LouiseX]

For the last two nights I have dreamt about being with a man. Not sex dreams just kissing and it is always in a public place. It has been different men both nights but they are always gorgeous and always blonde.
I am in a relationship and have been for a year, we are very happy and these dreams worry me. My boyfriend is very dark but these men have been fair and like i said they are gorgeous and there is so much passion in my dreams i feel guilty when I wake up. the men in my dreams are not anyone in specific I seem to be making them up.
My question is should I be worried about my relationship?? Do i not feel as strongly as I think I do. I never normally have dreams about men or sex/kissing ect....
Any help interpretting would be greatly appreciated..

[cherryred]

My take on this is not so much that you're unsatisfied with your man, but more that you've noticed there's something missing.

You said that the two men in your dreams were extremely attractive blondes but that your current boyfriend is very dark. This suggests an appreciation for a trait that your boyfriend doesn't necessarily have, in this case blonde hair.

I'm sure that in real life his hair colour is the least of your worries. This dream is to be interpreted on a purely symbolic level. Ask yourself whether there's anything about him that you think could use some work, or whether there's anything he lacks that you wish he had. This could be as simple as a physical trait or as complex as a deeper emotional need.

Take some time to think it over and come to a conclusion about all this. Again, I don't think your dream means you're no longer attracted to him so there's no need to worry about that. Just look into what I've said and you should be able to sort this all out.

[LouiseX]

Thanks Cherry a lot of that makes sense I really appreciate the advice. Maybe I've a lot of thinking to do.

[cherryred]

No problem. Have you made any sense of this dream yet, or is it still puzzling you?