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Stretchy wrote:i just been on ebay and found microfibre cloths that are meant to help. Sounds a bit like a joke this cloth is said to be the anwser to all skin ailments. Stretchmarks acne etc..all you gotta do is add water! If it was really that simple im guessing this guy would be a billionaire by now so im very skeptical but at the same time im that desparate i think i mite try it. Has anyone heard of it or used it? What do you think? Loada crap or possible solution?
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=74994&item=4378556259&rd=1
Browneyes wrote:I was wondering what happened to the old thread! I think it eventually got erased b/c of the huge amount of posts it was receiving.
Lately, I've been putting baby oil, Camelia oil and any kind of moisturizer on my stretch marks. It just makes me feel better although I don't think it will help. And for a while I was putting Epidermx on them but found it to be useless. Its works better on the face--and a much stronger microdermbrasion would be needed to work on stretch marks.
I did some research and there was an article that said that TCA (a strong microdermbrasion) is found to be highly effective on stretch marks, as well as the latest on a laser treatment called Blue Dye Laser (i forgot the correct name) I was excited to read this until it said that it should not be tried on African American skin due to hyperpigmentation. To be honest I really don't care. Anything is better than having these stretch marks--and if I was to have hyperpigmentation its not like I show my arms anyway! When I get my loan money I might try laser treatment. I am honestly getting sick of having these stretch marks ruin my life. I don't understand why I have to have them on my arms. I look at ppl around me and don't seem to notice anyone to have them on their shoulders or arms--its so freakin odd.
And it is completely ruining my sex life. It really bothers me when my boyfriend wants to see me in <A HREF="http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/" target="_blank">lingerie</A> (he doesn't know about the stretch marks on my arms) I just roll my eyes b/c I'd rather die than let him see how ugly and unattrative they are. To be honest if I were to ever get married it would really be a serious problem. I know I won't ever want to get naked in front of my husband--or want to do romantic things like take a bath or shower with him or get topless so he can give me a back massage.
I talk to my mother about it and she is very unsympathetic. She'll say ,"there are people with no arms and no legs. and you're complaining about stretch marks. all women have them." Yes, I understand that but that doesn't make it any less of a problem for me. There are times where I want to just yell at her and tell her i hate her. I wish she would understand how stretch marks can really affect your social life, sex life and every other aspect. Its more than just being superficial. She doesn't know that I'm suffering. Because she didn't have them like I did when she was my age. She probably could get naked in front of her lover and not worry about nasty scars all over her body. I guess things like that never cross her mind.
Begining to understand
I have a girlfriend that has stretch marks on her legs and butt. She is so miserable now that summer is here. She will NOT go to the beach or the pool. We have been dating for 4 years and are now engaged. I am just starting to fully understand the severity of these marks. What can I do to make her feel better about herself. She has never felt comfortable naked around me. She always changes in the dark and will not allow me to see her naked unless the lights are off. As I am sure this is a lot more frustrating for you guys, it is very frustrating to see her so hurt by this. Has anyone ever gone and talk to a doctor about getting help with the abbility to live with them. Or to go out in a bathing suit with them? She has built up such an enormus wall the last 10 years of her life that now it is like the worst thing in the world. As I read throught these forums I realize that there really is not anything that is going to 100% get rid og them. And since she will not go out in a bathing suit as long as they are visable, then none of these solutions are going to work. Does anyone that has built up a huge wall of insecurity belive that it might be able to broken down if she talks to a counsler or something that can make her feel more confident??? Please forgive me if I have affended anyone, I am trying to understand and cope with this.. Thanks for you help.
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