pre-proposal conversation

Lubie · Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2007 12:05 pm Post subject: pre-proposal conversation

I was at dinner with friends the other day. One of them was telling me that there is something like a pre-proposal conversation before a guy proposes. Obviously, I presume that it is nothing set in stone whether a guy does this or not. But did any of you have this type of conversation with your SO?

Can you give some detail if you have experienced this before? How did he start it, when did it happen and how soon after did you get engaged and what was the general discussion in this conversation? I am nowhere near that point with my SO but was just curious. Thanks in advance.

*Bambi* · Posted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 3:25 pm Post subject:

me and my bf have talked about this alot lately. i have even been reserching pre nups for both of us today.

i suppose i made it very clear what i wanted from a very early stage and so was always on the cards. i just wish he would hurry up and ask.

i cant remember how the subject came up we have spoke about it so much

madtune · Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2007 12:23 pm Post subject:

ru going to make a pre nup bambi ???

*Bambi* · Posted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 2:41 pm Post subject:

yeah i am. i think i really want to protect myself and gary is worried that he could lose his house if we split (i currently rent)

its the most sensible thing, i think, the most fair all round

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