Would you share your wife or partner??

[gbridges]

I have to add my thoughts here too.

I personally would strongly consider sharing my wife or girlfriend with another man at least once, just to try it out. I have read lots of erotic stories and seen lots of porn that focuses on the topic of wife sharing and they always get me really horny.

I have yet to be with a woman who is willing to try something like this though. And I may never get the chance. I fully understand how most women must feel about this, so I really don't push the idea. It's one thing for a guy to want to share his wife or girlfriend, but it's a totally different thing for the wife or girlfriend to agree to do it.

For me, there are several reasons why I think I might be able to share my woman and really enjoy it. 1. I would really get off on watching her being f*cked by another guy. 2. I have always wanted to have a MFM threesome with a woman and another guy. 3. Just the fact that my wife or girlfriend would be open to F****** another guy would be terribly exciting to me and I don't think I could pass it up if she actually said yes.

Of course, this would all be with my strict permission and I would have to be there when it happened. She would have to promise to me that it would not effect our relationship negatively in any way. She would have to work hard to reassure me that she loves only me and that she would have no feelings for the other guy. I can be very selfish so the other guy would have to fully respect that she is my woman and that I am just giving him a special chance to F*** her.

It's all wishfull thinking though. I highly doubt that I'll ever be lucky enough to be in this ideal kind of situation. I can always fantasize about it though.

[mande]

Listen, it's not for everyone, obviously.
If you think it would bother you, then it's going to be a problem, and you shouldn't do it.
But for those who really get excited about the thought, and have no jealousy issues, and put the necessary controls on it, it can be just an incredible experience.
By '"filter", I meant, you shouldn't involve other people who are then going to try to get at your partner alone, or do other things to put a wedge between the two of you.
That is pretty common, and it's why I don't suggest doing it with friends, which is what a lot of people do, and it's a mistake.
They have access. If it's someone you meet specifically for this activity, and just the person of the opposite sex is the contact, then that's the best way to control the temptation factor. (i.e. if you're going to have a MFM, then the male is the only one who can have contact with the other male; the guy can't start calling your wife/GF)

[Kedger]

My wife has f*cked my best mate while I watched, and also without me being there. We are exceptionally in love, a love most people will never know, and thats why we can do this..its hard to explain, but we know nothing can ever become between us. I have also let her f*ck a guy when she went out with a female friend....when she came home with another guys c*m all over her skirt, it was just so damn exciting. We were at it all night and still get off on it like crazy now. It can spice up your sex life like nothing else, but the only way it works is IF your relationship is as exceptionally strong, you are in love unconditionally, and your trust is unquestionable. U need 3/3 for it to work, and we are lucky we have them...if u have any less u are in dangerous ground.

[Guest]

a love most people will never know

A type of love most people dont want to know.

[mande]

I personally draw the line with anything happening not in the presence of your mate.
Especially the bit with her coming home with some other guys' cum in her.
Perhaps plenty exciting IF there were no such thing as STD's, but you have to realize, she could be bringing home other things from that guy too.
Too damn risky for me, kids!

[sissy_shoefetish]

It's refreshing to know that people still take their wedding vow of forsaking all others seriously...wait a minute, they don't! So that's why divorce rates are so F****** high!

Peoples view on their vows hasn't changed. Whats changed are the constraints and prejudice in society against leaving a failed and hollow marriage.
Because people can get divorced, it means they can formally walk out on violent and abusive partners, and unfaithful ones too and rebuild their lives.
The wedding vows are a nice idea, but little more. They were instigated when people didn't live so long or with the sort of leisure time we have in the west.
Divirce rates ar ein the end "so high" because too many people get married for the wrong reasons.

[sissy_shoefetish]

Would any of you share your wife/partner with another guy?

On looking at teh many posts on this subject, including my own, I started to wonder just how common this really is

have any of you done this, considering this....lets run a poll and find out

i would do it under the right circumstances. i would want my wife to have sexual with others occasionally and to humiliate me by taunting me about it before , during or after. However its not going to happen because she doesn't want to do that and i wouldn't dream of pushing the point as it would be so unfair.
Before i married i lived with a girl who sometimes talked about how good open marriages were. She began to be unfaithful to me, first flirting, then having sex with others. i think if she had told me she wanted licence to do this i could have gone along, but she didn't . She then got pregnant by someone else, which was the one thing i could not accept. i am not sure what might have happened if we'd had a proper arrangment for her "adventures".
So its not for me now, but i am not closed to the idea.

[IVAN]

I'm going out with a woman who works as an escort, though her job bothered me a bit in the beginging I have to admit that its a turn on to know that other men have to pay to be with her while I get it for free and she is also the most fantastic woman in bed that I've ever had!!....
in our spare time when she is not working we often go to swinging partys and I just love seeing other men and women F****** her!...

[conniejones73@yahoo.com]

well, any others want to add to this topic.

I had the besy night yet on Saturday. Wanna know???

[orak100]

well, any others want to add to this topic.

I had the besy night yet on Saturday. Wanna know???

Yes please...do tell!

[Guest]

yeah, come on connie, tell us!

[IMHO]

I share my wife with a very close friend about once a week for the last year. However its something we both wanted and it has brought us closer. She use to be so passive about sex, but now she is more assertive . Which is something i have wanted for a long time.

I have to be present during any sexual activity. We have rules and is why it works out so well. I am glad this is with a close friend that i can trust. i am to freaked out about stds to do this with a stranger, i want std testing, and i want someone who will be honest if they are sexual activity with anyone else because of stds.

This cant be for everyone, but this was great for our relationship, but only because its something that we both wanted.

[rosie727]

to each his own-but i am too much of a jealous redhead to share my man!!!!!!! cant see how it can benefit a relationship

[A few coments]

My ex once suggested I 'do' several of her friends. It seems they had been talking of how good their men were, several however didn't have husbands or steadys.

The idea my ex wife suggested was that several of her 'menless' friends and her rent a cabin up in a mountain area where available about a 2 hour drive from where we live and that I act as 'The Stud' for her 'needful' friends.

What a fantasy that could be. I promptly asked who, what they looked like, ages, etc. It turned out that all were very obese women. Overly fat or anorexicly skinny women flat-out make becoming 'enthused'/engorged IMPOSSIBLE for me, - to gross.

I wasn't that interested in the 1st place, just gererally curious when I inquired, with a bit of fantasy wheels spining in my head type effect.

I declined and said it didn't seem like a good idea and that she(ex) wasn't the type who could feel 'OK' about it anyway, nor could I Ever 'share' her in a revers type of manner, or in ANY Other intimate way.

Something hormonally had changed since having her 3rd and last child together which made her lose any/ALL desire of any kind, but since she still Faithfully did her
'Every morning DUTY' giving ME head, it was a 'manage-able' situation for me.

It kind of depressed me on certain levels that she cared so little about 'the act' as she began to consider it, that she was willing to share me with her friends, who incidentally:

Requested this of her after she told of
'how good at it' I was back when she had normal desires before last child. Gee, tell me that isn't/wasn't cofusing!

BTW:
I've not had intimate activity since she left in '96, primarrily because I've Plain James biblical based morals, not from lack of opportuity, Lots of 'loose' morals women these days.
I get flirted with frequently IOW, sometimes outright propositioned.

I MUST Have chance of 'ownership'
- intimately speaking to be even remotely interested.
Yes, there Are MEN like me out there gals.
When I find another, I'll be back to Life as it should be.
Every morning DUTY!

[seconds]

She was reluctant at first but after it happened it all came to pass that we both enjoyed it. I the wating and anticipation of hearing all about it when she came home and her to not knowing what she was going to get until she saw it