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suze
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 Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 10:42 am Post subject: One last night of freedom?? |
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I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, we split up once for around a year about 3 years ago.
We are getting married in January.
I am thinking that I would really like to have sex with someone else before we get married.
I am starting to get a bit freaked out about not having sex with anyone else for the rest of my life.
What do you think? Is this so wrong? |
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chloe1234
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How would u feel if your soon to be husband wanted to have sex with someone other than u?? I am sure u wouldnt b happy. You defi shouldnt b getting married if your contemplating this+especially if your freaking out about sleeping with one person forever.
Marriage is spose to be about commitment, you do not sound like u r ready for that yet!! If your husband is a commited person+u go ahead and marry him, I feel sorry for him!!  |
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delgadosfan
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| I can't believe you are even considering this!! I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years (he is the only person i have slept with) and love him with all my heart. I would NEVER consider such a thing. You clearly don't love him otherwise you would never even think about doing this to him!! Women like you really annoy me. |
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Mr B
FemaleFirst Grand Master (1000+ Posts)
Joined: 15 Jul 2005
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| Posted: Sat Jul 22, 2006 8:21 pm Post subject: |
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| delgadosfan wrote: |
| I can't believe you are even considering this!! I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years (he is the only person i have slept with) and love him with all my heart. I would NEVER consider such a thing. You clearly don't love him otherwise you would never even think about doing this to him!! Women like you really annoy me. |
What she said. Why are you marrying him? You're only doing it because you think you're "expected" to. Youve no idea what love is. |
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Jeri
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 It appears that you are both pre swinger and pre divorced.  |
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thegreenbastard
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| Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 3:35 pm Post subject: |
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| Just do it |
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| Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 3:22 pm Post subject: |
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| F****** SLAPPER |
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monosodium
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| Posted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 8:26 pm Post subject: Re: One last night of freedom?? |
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| suze wrote: |
I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, we split up once for around a year about 3 years ago.
We are getting married in January.
I am thinking that I would really like to have sex with someone else before we get married.
I am starting to get a bit freaked out about not having sex with anyone else for the rest of my life.
What do you think? Is this so wrong? |
I know how you feel - I think it's actually quite natural - I know I felt the same way before I got married and a couple of friends have had the same thoughts too.
I didn't go through with it and I wouldn't recommend that you do either, but unless you've been in that position it's hard for other people to understand. For me, it wasn't that I don't love Mrs M, but purely that commitment hanging over you can made me think about all the things I wasn't likely to do again, like chat up women. Then I really realised that the reason I hadn't been chatting up women was because I actually wasn't interested. It's perfectly normal IMHO, but it's an itch you probably shouldn't scratch. |
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hottrod
FemaleFirst Grand Master (1000+ Posts)
Joined: 24 Aug 2006
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isn't that why we created batchler and batchleret parties   |
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blonde__bombshell
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| If you love your husband then I dont see the problem. If he cant make you happy sexuallu as well as emotionally then dont marry him. Simple. |
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JackCity
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Hey suze....what happened???
Are you both really happy??
Are you both absolutely gutted?
Did you sleep with someone else before you got married??
Heavens....Did you get married???
Tell us..... |
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