Posted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 8:04 pm Post subject: 3. Do You Play The Dating Game?
3. Do You Play The Dating Game?
As a single mother, you cannot afford to play the worldly dating game of love, sex and relationships. When you become a revolving door for hordes of males, you indoctrinate your son to systematically devalue and disrespect the female gender. By watching an assortment of males freely enter into and abruptly exit out of your life, your son learns firsthand how to become a playa player, pimp, baller and shot caller.
As he witnesses your failed relationships, tears of regret from your manifold sexual liaisons and learns how you were dumped, played, dismissed and disgraced at the hands of detestable males, his conscience becomes desensitized to the well being of all women. As you play the dating game, you persuade your son that males were called to be pimps.
As a single mother, if a man refuses to respect you as a woman and honor the fact that you have a child, he is not worthy of your companionship. You need to know that a man should not date you if he is not prepared emotionally, psychological, physically and financially to take on the responsibility of raising your child. It is an absolute waste of your time for you to date or court a man who:
* Doesn’t want children
* Doesn’t like children
* Is averse to raising another man’s child
* Is not interested in getting married
* Has it made clear that his objective is to dishonor you sexually
As a single mother of a boy, you are largely responsible for how your son will treat the next generation of women. Take that charge serious. Don’t set your son up for sure relationship, marital and manhood meltdown. Set before him an example of honor, respect and virtue.
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Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:55 am Post subject:
While I think the above article is good one to take note of, I would also like to say that it is not the words of Fred75. Below is the way Fred really thinks. Please review his pass quotes. There are many available about constant degrading of a single mother.... or women in general.
Fred75 wrote:
Men that marry women would have to have a bit of "rescue" in them to pick a single mother over a woman that is, shall we say, more independent and unhindered with problems.
They have to be the knight in shining armor that is there to rescue versus the guy that looks for a fresh start and his own family.
Fred75 wrote:
Men that start fresh have a better outlook versus a man that has something of a bit RESCUE in his heart.
Sort of like used cars.
Both types of men can drive but one can afford the new vehicle.
And one can only afford the one that needs maintenance.
Fred75 wrote:
Ya..but were talking about the step dad!
What I am saying is that the second man is lacking, for lack of a better phrase, confidence to chose a mate with no baggage!
But I still stand behind my position that that type of man is weak in some minor way when he goes for a damsel in distress over a woman with no baggage!
According to Fred, all women are doomed no matter what we choose to do. Of course it's not true, but anything Fred writes should to be carefully examined and taken with a grain of salt. IMO
Thank you Zia
Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:41 pm Post subject: Re: 3. Do You Play The Dating Game?
Fred75 wrote:
3. Do You Play The Dating Game?
As a single mother, you cannot afford to play the worldly dating game of love, sex and relationships. When you become a revolving door for hordes of males, you indoctrinate your son to systematically devalue and disrespect the female gender. By watching an assortment of males freely enter into and abruptly exit out of your life, your son learns firsthand how to become a playa player, pimp, baller and shot caller.
As he witnesses your failed relationships, tears of regret from your manifold sexual liaisons and learns how you were dumped, played, dismissed and disgraced at the hands of detestable males, his conscience becomes desensitized to the well being of all women. As you play the dating game, you persuade your son that males were called to be pimps.
As a single mother, if a man refuses to respect you as a woman and honor the fact that you have a child, he is not worthy of your companionship. You need to know that a man should not date you if he is not prepared emotionally, psychological, physically and financially to take on the responsibility of raising your child. It is an absolute waste of your time for you to date or court a man who:
* Doesn’t want children
* Doesn’t like children
* Is averse to raising another man’s child
* Is not interested in getting married
* Has it made clear that his objective is to dishonor you sexually
As a single mother of a boy, you are largely responsible for how your son will treat the next generation of women. Take that charge serious. Don’t set your son up for sure relationship, marital and manhood meltdown. Set before him an example of honor, respect and virtue.
What can you women add to that list in regards to daughters?
Do you think daughters can come away thinking men just USE women when mothers do such things?
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