by tobinfest on Thu May 01, 2008 6:31 pm
Nicola,
Older guy here, but this is a safe haven and very nice and fun. If you pay attention to some of the comments and their vantage points, you might learn something useful for your own life.
Some of the zones are "Stupid", but fun, but I have noticed that when someone is in a fix and really needs some serious advice, people drop their antics and get equally serious with their advice, both male and female, which means you get both aspecs of any equation. This to me is awesome, if people listen to and heed some of the advice. Sometimes the advice is harsh ("you are being pretty stupid and need to change/adapt) which appears necessary at times. Often, however, people have been through the same thing, (pregnancy, STD's unfaithfulness, threesomes, etc. and can give you their experiences.
They are fun and they will help. Insights that I perhaps never thought of. It does help.
Welcome.
HI EVERY1. ITS MY 1ST TIME ON HERE SO BE GENTAL. NOT SURE WAT TO SAY REALLY. ANY1 WNT TO CHAT? X
