Dominating husband

by **good wife** on Tue Mar 04, 2008 1:54 pm

I would love to start making my husband submit to my will. For a start I would love to see him go to the office wearing short shiny rubber boots wih a 2 inch heel. Question: How should I start?

by **rebel-carpenter** on Tue Mar 04, 2008 2:03 pm

I think most men would be off to the lawyers to get a divorce. Why do you want him to do this? Oh yeah..how about talk to him!

by **DeniseD** on Wed Mar 05, 2008 12:33 am

Start at the beginning! Many men fantasize about their wife dominating them, get him in a relaxed mood (perhaps with your hand/hands wrapped around the family jewels) and gradually bring up the topic of you wanting him to submit to your wishes and desires. There is a good chance he will go for this and you will be on your way. You may first want to do some reading/research on Elise Sutton's website and Uniquely Rika's site for a better understanding of the motivations behind this as well as some good ideas on how to put this into practice.
DeniseD

by **good wife** on Wed Mar 05, 2008 6:59 am

rebel-carpenter wrote: Why do you want him to do this?

"Why"? I suppose it is the devil in me: I want to exercise some power over him and what better way than to humiliate him and make him submit? From what I read, I can see that there is a shame/erotic element in submitting to humiliation.

by **rebel-carpenter** on Thu Mar 06, 2008 4:02 pm

Hmm whatever turns you on, but why would you want to humiliate him? explain it to me

by **good wife** on Thu Mar 06, 2008 7:54 pm

I had something like this in mind:
[http://www.southern-charms4.com/chiarab/ch181x011.jpg]
Would it not be fun tohear him ask:"Please may I not wear those wellies to the office today?"
:twisted:

by **parigin** on Fri Mar 07, 2008 7:44 am

Question: How should I start?

I think that this is only the beginning of more things to befall him. So, verrry slowly I guess.

A good moment to introduce the idea is during love-making. Suggest you would like to get out of the routine and spice things up. You would like to make love to him when he is wearing rubber boots - which you you would have already.

There is the "carrot or the stick" that you can use. If he goes along be "very nice" to him so he remembers it the next time.

If he baulks you can be offended and say you wanted something and he refused. Then give him the cold treatment. This usually works.

You should next make sure that he find the boots waiting for him when he comes from work; and again you reward him

The first time he wears them outside is when it rainy and dark - just for a walk with you... and so on.

Good luck

John

by **might try** on Sun Mar 09, 2008 2:01 am

you might try a simple 1st step of
*Demanding he lick you out Thououly until you
Orgazm.
Beginning his training as
- Your SexSlave with his Main purpose of life to
Satisfy Your Desires, whims, and the like.
Until he begins to understand:

* You Are Always 'The Boss';
- & `In Control` Always in bedroom, - until that is established firmly;
-migration into other areas of life is un-likely successful.

Causing him to wear regularly
(when away from Your watchful eye)
a padlock on his nutsac for which Only you have key is another step in his training process.

by **Guest** on Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:31 pm

by **good wife** on Sun Mar 16, 2008 11:47 pm

The process has started. I bought him a pair of short rubber boots - not shiny and with a flat heel. I brought up the subject in the middle of our love making: At first he sounded interested but when he saw the boots he was supposed to wear he baulked. I in turn ccoled down completely. Since then he is having the cold treatment. However the offending boots are still in the bedroom and I suspect he is having second thoughts as I can see they are not exactly how I leave them...

by **Guest** on Wed Mar 26, 2008 10:29 pm

Oh dear...When propositioned in this manner from a male point of view it can be threatening, especially if the sign of submission is external. My advice is opt for something concealed to first break him in...bracelet ranging all the way up to chastity belt. The item doesn't necessarily have to be gender specific but the fact that it's your will having it kept on him is a start to things. The one day you may even have the option of a full blown tranny on demand :-/

Cold treatment doesn't work, it just makes things difficult. Just deny the nookie let everything else be cool, you don't have to be in the "mood"

Good luck.

by **MaxtheGaul** on Fri Mar 28, 2008 7:14 pm

No, you've got male psychology completely wrong and will only piss him off. You've got to make it fun for him not just a turn on for you.

by **tv_sue** on Sat Mar 29, 2008 1:11 pm

good wife wrote:
rebel-carpenter wrote: Why do you want him to do this?

"Why"? I suppose it is the devil in me: I want to exercise some power over him and what better way than to humiliate him and make him submit? From what I read, I can see that there is a shame/erotic element in submitting to humiliation.

very true but do look here
http://elisesutton.homestead.com/main.html

by **genekelly** on Sun Mar 30, 2008 2:15 pm

might try wrote:you might try a simple 1st step of
*Demanding he lick you out Thououly until you
Orgazm.
Beginning his training as
- Your SexSlave with his Main purpose of life to
Satisfy Your Desires, whims, and the like.
Until he begins to understand:

* You Are Always 'The Boss';
- & `In Control` Always in bedroom, - until that is established firmly;
-migration into other areas of life is un-likely successful.

Causing him to wear regularly
(when away from Your watchful eye)
a padlock on his nutsac for which Only you have key is another step in his training process.

Was that an attempt at some kind of post-modern poetry?

by **Guest** on Wed Apr 09, 2008 8:33 pm

maybe an across pond trend? many female classmates here on W.coast, carry pics of their bf's "MASTER Locked" balls; - to show other Domme type gurls. sports active guys not when having to shower since to embarrassing letting other guys know from locker room. fine arts major guys tho, some rarely have free'balls. want head? 1st, lets put this Lock on, - just for fun. :girl: