wife seduction

[wife watcher]

having my wife seduced by another man has long been a fantasy of mine.
i have a friend who i confided in about my fantasy and he said why not try it.He told me he would be willing to try this and see how far we get.
so here begins the attempted seduction of my wife..
more to follow as things develop.

[wife watcher]

hi again.
my friend called at our house this afternoon on the pretext of coffee and a chat.In reality he called to look my wife over and see if there was any chemistry between them.She seemed easy in his company and he had her laughing quite easily.I found it quite exiting watching him chatting to her knowing what his intensions are.As he left he told me he found her sexy and attempted seduction would be a pleasure for him. We plan a few more visits to my home to get her used to him being around and so they may have time together without me being present.This will be achieved by me popping out a few minutes before he arives,and coming back half an hour later.This we hope will allow time for a chat over coffee.

[ash.]

you should be careful. what if she finds out about all this...and im sure she will. she could get pissed at you that you tried to get another man to seduce her for your own pleasure. i mean if she does end up having sex with this man she could end up being incredibly guilty afterwards and the emotional trauma it could cause her. and all those feelings that arnt exactly great feelings wold have been all for your gain. have you ever told her that the idea of her being seduced by another man appeals to you? i think you could be walking on thin ice with this one so be careful not to hurt your wife in the process of bringing a fantasy to life.

[boturki]

good luck
and keep us informed all about the new things

[Jaca]

Wifewatcher,

This can easily be construed as you "testing" your wife for faithfulness.
She may not go through with it. And when she finds out that your were aware of it all along, will feel betrayed by you. She may think you don't want her and a handballing her off to your mate!
She might do it - she might like it. But when she finds out you have manipulated her into it, you're toast.
You two guys are having a closer relationship than you are with your wife!
It might sound arousing in theory, but you are opening a big can of worms here!
If my husband tried a stunt like this, it would be the beginning of the end.

[mande]

No matter how arousing you think this will be, you are INSANE if you play this game without telling your wife, and asking her if she's into it, beforehand.

Otherwise, what you're doing is setting up the demise of your own marriage.
Because if she DOES go through with it, there is a good chance that she may fall for him EMOTIONALLY, because women are much less able than men, to separate sex and love.

You're playing a dangerous game, my friend.
I suggest clearing it with her first.

[wife watcher]

Thank you all for your thoughts and concerns,my friend and i have talked this through and are aware of the risks involved.
I feel that, knowing both parties ,the risks are small but non the less there.Hopefully there will be no problems,but we intend to proceed carefully all the same.My wife has never met my friend before sunday,I met him through my hobby,scuba diving,and have known him for 3 years.
She commented over dinner tonight that he seemed a nice guy,so maybe an interest already,we shall see.

[tanchessman]

My wife and I have had a couple of sexual experiences with another couple and it was such a thrill to be able to watch her with another man...It was so great that I didn't even care about the other woman. However, all parties must be completely honest with each other before getting into this type of situation. Why not confide your fantasy to your wife then see how she feels about it?...Just make sure to let her know that this fantasy would only make you love her even more...Good luck!

[hot tuna]

good luck

hope its the "outcome" you desire

I have been part of a 3some outdoors with a chap and his wife = phenominal!

[wife watcher]

my friend called on us tonight to talk over a diving trip we are going on at the weekend.he stayed for an hour , my wife stayed in the kitchen an chatted with us over coffee.Again he had her laughing and joining in the chat very easily.She asked him a few questions,why havnt you called before,does your wife dive,he tld her hes single,just split with girlfriend.My wife said she was sorry,he said no problem,she wanted to marry and he doesnt want commitment yet.My wife then said "you will be chasing the ladies again then" He said only the pretty ones ,and looked her in the eye.We all laughed but my wife flushed a little.After a little more chat he had to go he said.When hed left my wife again said what a nice guy and asked his age,hes 35 nine years younger than her.
So another successfull meeting and all seens to be going well.Listening to them chat and thinking about what may happen was making me very horny,so we may have good sex tonight.

[mande]

I still think you're crazy for doing this, and I've had 3-somes and 4 -somes and have shared my girlfriend with another guy, so it's not that aspect that I object to.
It's the fact that you're setting up for what you THINK is just a sexual fantasy, but what you in REALITY are setting up, is an emotional fantasy.
NEWS FLASH!!! Women are not like men!
It's a very high risk that your wife is going to start liking this guy EMOTIONALLY, not just sexually.
Don't you get this at all????
I simply don't see the downside in bringing your wife in on this.
In fact, it's even more sexy, because of all the buildup that she will have thinking about it, fantasizing about it, etc.
All you're doing now, is setting her up to compromise her fidelity, and asking herself things like "hmmm, is the fact that I want to F*** this other guy, mean that I really don't love my husband like I should? Or maybe this other guy is my real soulmate, and I made a mistake marrying my husband?"

If you don't think women think like that, you're a very naive man.
I think it's time you tell her EVERYTHING, so this thing can only be a SEXUAL fantasy, and not end up in the breakup of your marriage.
You're playing with fire here, and you don't even know it

[Jaca]

I agree with mande (again).

I keep coming back to this post, hoping to see that wife watcher has come to his senses and TALKED to his wife.

[GEORGE ZIMMER]

LET ME PUT MY LAP ROCKET IN YOUR WIFE'S SQUISH MITTEN
SHE WON'T BECOME EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED AFTERWARD, I GUARANTEE IT

[david2258]

Hi, I can tell you that if you do go through with seeing your wife with another guy, it will be one of the most exiting and erotic things you ever do.
My wife took her first lover last weekend. After hours of chatting and camming, he came over to our house. Kids away of course.
I only got to watch, which is what I really wanted. I took some pics too.
It was so sensual, lots of kissing and forplay, then they made love in three positions, Missionary, spooning and finishing with wife on top.
I love my wife more than ever if that is possible, and I know she loves me. She really fancied this guy, he is 10 years younger than her.
She had a great orgasm through penetration which was a great bonus.
This was her first lover other than me, but it won't be her first.
My advice is if you are both ready for it, go for it and have fun.

[Guest]

In "Just for Men" there is a topic "The New Marriage: female polygamy", which features an article by a female sexologist, claiming that women (a) have a greater need fore extramarital sex than men, and (b) that they're more up to it. These claims are supported by sound argumentation, so I tend to believe them; even more so because my wife says she is absolutely right.

In my personal experience, it has always been easier for my wife to find a one night stand than for me. Moreover her going astray has never damaged our relationship, while mine did as I got frustrated about my lack of success and worked this out on her.

I'm telling all this just to show that Wife Watcher's plan is far less risky than contended by some. My only advice to him would be to let his wife know that he would generally not object to her having some innocent extramarital sex.