Breastfeeding

sycape · Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 2:12 pm Post subject: Breastfeeding

Ok, before I embark on a curious topic of taboo and get myself branded in the weirdo category let me just say Im also trying to understand this and discover why on earth I seem to have this dare I say 'fetish'. And I dont want to lessen or disrespect the woman who have posted more serious subjects of discussion so for that I must apologise and if I do offend I will remove.

Im a professional, articulate, attractive prof guy (Ill stop there before I blow my own trumpet) but I seem soooo curious about breastfeeding? Is that normal? Now I love boobs and all and find them all so wonderful and as individual as a fingerprint but I think my appreciation has led me to this new interest.

Is it weird that I find the act of breastfeeding beautiful, stimulating, sensual and dare I say even arousing. I know some thoughts shouldnt be shared so Im sure I may regret this one but maybe Im not alone. But I would love to even just watch as I have never even experienced the act and feel impolite to stare if I see the act in public. But the idea of actually suckling is woohoooooo to me. I know there is a whole dodgy fetish world out there but do woman like the idea of nursing someone - other that the God given intent of feeding your baby. Is it a weirdo thing or do woman also like to share the feeling and want to do this or another weird men obsession with sex.

Is it simply, no norman no-mates your mom just didnt feed you enough milk as a kid. Am I wonky or just too curious for my own good, cause all I want to do is experience this? Help, Milkman me

foolsgold · Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 2:45 pm Post subject:

Well I'd say that this would be better answered in the sex forums but to answer your question no it's not that unusual. My husband likes to 'nurse' (I'm not lactating) before he goes to sleep and quite a few of the guys that I went to collage with commented about me nursing my daughter (I was allowed to bring her to most of my classes with me) and that it was 'natural and beautiful'. Yes while I was nursing my daughter I was covered and didn't just have my tit hanging out Razz

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sycape · Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 2:53 pm Post subject:

Thanks for your response fg

Immy · Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 12:29 pm Post subject:

I think this is fab, very close bnding experience and more common thatn ud think
xx

MeOhMy · Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 1:56 pm Post subject:

I think what you are experiencing is common but not many are so open to express it.

happygirl · Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 6:27 pm Post subject:

i will be breastfeeding mine thats it i mange to, otherwise i will suffocate the poor bambino with my knockers Shocked

MeOhMy · Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 7:02 pm Post subject:

lol happygirl i know what you mean I love having boobs but only have them when preggo Wink

I breastfed my lil girl and I plan to do this time this round if all goes to plan

sycape · Posted: Sat May 17, 2008 10:56 pm Post subject: streuuuuth

mmmm all this talk and I start to wish it was a spectator sport - though it would be hard to spectate. Happygirl/Meohmy, Im very jealous...............alas woe is me lol Razz

chance1 · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 10 Jun 2008 Posts: 4

is it true that you dont have a period while breastfeeding?

foolsgold · Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 1:52 am Post subject:

I didn't have a period till my daughter was about 20 months. Although by that time we had cut down on how often she nursed and I ovulated, got pregnant and miscarried before I had my first period.
As long as you 'feed on demand' and don't stick to an 'every 3hrs' type schedule you won't get a period. The reason is feeding frequently keeps hormone levels up in your body. If you stop BF'ing or don't BF often enough the levels will go down and you CAN get pregnant before you have your first period (personal experience).

Roxy P · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 01 Jul 2008 Posts: 4

how old is too old to breastfeed? I stopped feeding mine when they were 3.

foolsgold · Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 6:43 am Post subject:

LoL well some people will say 3 months, 6 months, 12 months, 2 years..... it all depends on who you ask. I nursed my daughter till she was almost 3 and I plan on nursing any more children for just as long. Personally I think by 3 they should be old enough to find other ways to comfort and soothe them. My daughter was only nursing to go to sleep at night and for comfort.... maybe twice to three times a day? I'm all for breastfeeding but I think the mothers that nurse school age children are taking it a little far imo. Laughing

Roxy P · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 01 Jul 2008 Posts: 4

I thought that too it would quite embarassing for the kid too to be still reliant on breastfeeding at school age