photos of my wife

kirin · Guest

I really need help on this. I chanced upon my wife's digital cam's stored photos and had quite a shock. I saw photos of her in just bras and panties taken in a hotel room. Some other photos showed her in a really thin white lingerie without bra, and I can easily see her nipples! She was all alone in all these photos. I have never seen her wearing a lingerie.

My wife goes on overseas assignments with one other male colleague frequently, a rather good looking and mascular guy, and she admits that each time they would share a single room in order to save cost. I assume that these photos were taken by this guy. There's also two photos taken of this guy in the same hotel room with him in only bicycle tights and from the look of his tights, it is obvious that he was having a huge erection! A friend of mine thinks that it's naive of me to think that 'nothing' has happened between my wife and this guy. It is impossible for a man and a girl to be sleeping on the same bed for a month and remain sexless.

My wife is not particularly very liberal, and I just cannot imagine her willing to be in just bras and panties infront of another man, let alone have photos taken of her that way. I have not found the guts to talk to her about this yet and in several days, she will be away with this guy again for almost an entire month. Should I at least tell my wife to be more weary of this guy? I really love my wife and I don't want her to be hurt or be in any form of danger. Or am I just over re-acting? Maybe they are just very close friends and these photos were taken playfully? Please advise.

mande · Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 6:13 pm Post subject:

You're joking, right?
They are very obviously f*cking each other's brains out on these trips!

You say things like "I can't imagine she is doing X", and here you have the ACTUAL PHOTOS of her doing X!!!!!
You are 100% delusional if you think somehow nothing is going on here.
I would have blown a gasket when she said they were sharing a hotel room, and that scenario would have ended right then and there.

Your wife is having an affair.
You have actual photographs of it.
Wake up.

If I were you, I would insist she QUIT THAT JOB immediately.
No matter what, it's time for marriage counseling.
There is absolutely no basis whatsoever, for either her, you, or the other guy to deny that she's f*cking this guy.
It's a fact. You have to face that first of all.

Mike-O · Guest

You should wait and see and not jump to conclusion too quickly. If your wife and this guy stay in the same hotel room for a rather long period of time, they may develop the habit of changing infront of each other out of convenience, over time, as they feel less inhibited. Photos could have been taken as a joke just to de-stress after work. Have you looked for other signs?

no nonsense · Guest

Get a grip man, cant you see the obvious she is F****** him like no tomorrow and she is obviously enjoying it. If you are any sort of man you will challenge her about them and demand to know what is going on. If, as you know will be, the truth is just that and she admits it thenyou must insist she gives up this fuckfest of a job at once. You then tell her if she is so keen to show off her panties then she must strip to them and then you should spank her thoroughly,first over your knee with knickers on then standing bent over with knickers round her thighs then spreadeagled over the table naked. I would then give her an ultimatum -- be stripped and posed in different position different knickers every evening when you get home for,how ever many photos you have days, because you are going to spank, strap, whip, hairbrush & cane her until she learns. If she refuses then tell her to go to her F***-buddy and dont come back.

happygirl · Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 6:38 pm Post subject:

wow hun you sound like a lovely bloke but seriously can you even understand why this would be happening.it sounds to me that your scared and very worried about loosing your wife.i understand you love her but sorry but she is making you look a fool by doing this.i would approach her and ask what these are about because otherwise she could be doing this for a very long time and not careing about your feelings Confused

Mr B · Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 6:41 pm Post subject:

They're doing it. Dump her.

Maisie26 · You Go Girl (100+ Posts) Joined: 26 Oct 2005 Posts: 187

Shouldn't you be able to tell her what you found by chance? And if there is trust in the marriage, as there must have been for you to agree to let her share a hotel room with another man, she should be able to explain.

MAC11 · Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 10:05 am Post subject:

kirin, .this is either a fantasy, or you've lost your mind! Wake up and smell the coffee!!

If you trust your wife, and she's nothing to hide, ask her for her mobile phone so you can browse the numbers and texts etc. Don't give her time to delete incriminating evidence. If she loves you and is innocent, she'll have nothing to hide..

You have the confession, and the evidence..

The Chairman · Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 6:01 pm Post subject:

mande · Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 2:14 am Post subject:

I don't get this "don't jump to conclusions" advice.
He said they stay in the same hotel room, and he finds photos of his wife wearing sexy nightware that she doesn't wear with him!
AND a photo of the other guy with a huge erection!
Hello? You need MORE PROOF than this?

Don't forget to copy those photos somewhere, so she can't deny it.

Veyron · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 05 Apr 2008 Posts: 12

Yea....remember to save the pictures somewhere else incase she deletes it off the camera and denies it.
Well can you find the lingerie that she wore in the picture in the wardrobe or anything? If you cant then its very very obvious she is cheating on you man. Dont be a fool by bluffing yourself that this is not happening.

How would a guy who is fully aroused and erect not have sex with a girl in a see-through lingerie with nothing beneath it. I bet you will have sex yourself if I put you into that situation.

Saving cost by staying in the same room? For f**k sake, if they are going for assignements again and again with just the both of them, then something must be wrong. Probably they are not working but just going away to their usual spot to f**k each other brains out.

WAKE UP!!!!!!

No Nonsense · Guest

Well have you confronted her yet, what did she say did she admit it and did you follow my advise and spankher - HARD.

Caroline_J · Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 8:26 am Post subject:

this post has gotta be a p*** take.

miss P · Guest

just to side-track a little, how many married female would actually not mind changing infront of another man (besides husband and male relatives)? I changed twice infront of my husband and his best friend (a guy) while we were on a holiday together and the three of us shared a room. We were all changing together, and I noticed his pal looking at me and started rapidly developing an erection before he quickly pulled his brief over it to hide it, making it looked like a huge tent!

Guest · Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 1:28 pm Post subject:

Bit different when you are with your husband in the room. What would he say or do if he found out you had been flashing everything to someone in an hotel room (regularly) if he wasnt there or knew about it. I know what I would do Id spank your pretty little arse so hard you wouldnt want to flash anything at anyone exept me again