Friend in Danger of Trouble with Girlfriend

[SomeStraightGuy]

suppose he would ask one of his friends to look for her whenever he is in the club and then offer an apology, I mean to act as if he forgot about the kick in the testicles and just say his friend is sorry and ask if he had damaged her shirt (he did definitely not !) and ask her what it cost and he would give her the money, do you think this would 100percent make her keep her mouth shut in case she should see him again together with his girlfreind ?

That's a fantastic idea. That way, when the girl tells your friend's girlfriend anyway, you can let the girlfriend know "Hey now she has to give us back the money we gave her to keep her mouth shut!" It will make the girlfriend want to stay together with your friend for sure.

what do you mean money back why should I first give her the money when I want it back really ????? you dont understand the point at all !

[animallover15]

Thought you said you wouldnt read Bouncy's posts??

[Bouncy]

Did it even enter your mind that she might go and tell his girlfriend "Hey, your boyfriend's friend offered me money not to tell you that he groped my tits when he was out without you."

I think the pair of you should stay away from clubs as neither of you know how to behave properly in one.

You should both steer clear of relationships as well, as you don't know the meaning of respect for one.

[Bouncy]

Thought you said you wouldnt read Bouncy's posts??

There's no limit to the lies he'll tell, or the excuses he'll make up to cover them.

[Cambridge]

Did it even enter your mind that she might go and tell his girlfriend "Hey, your boyfriend's friend offered me money not to tell you that he groped my tits when he was out without you."

I think the pair of you should stay away from clubs as neither of you know how to behave properly in one.

You should both steer clear of relationships as well, as you don't know the meaning of respect for one.

Soz, no, B. Let me put it in a different light. What they need to stay away from is alcohol. It is said, when it starts affecting your conduct in public, or your relationships in private, you know you’ve got the start of a problem. I don’t mean to sound like some evangelistic AA counselor (I'm not), or put a pious pall over things, but it’s clear that these boys are painting a picture that goes way beyond the boy/girl spat that you guys are engaged in. These guys are already heading for diagnosable, medical, not to mention legal trouble.

[SomeStraightGuy]

Did it even enter your mind that she might go and tell his girlfriend "Hey, your boyfriend's friend offered me money not to tell you that he groped my tits when he was out without you."

I think the pair of you should stay away from clubs as neither of you know how to behave properly in one.

You should both steer clear of relationships as well, as you don't know the meaning of respect for one.

Soz, no, B. Let me put it in a different light. What they need to stay away from is alcohol. It is said, when it starts affecting your conduct in public, or your relationships in private, you know you’ve got the start of a problem. I don’t mean to sound like some evangelistic AA counselor (I'm not), or put a pious pall over things, but it’s clear that these boys are painting a picture that goes way beyond the boy/girl spat that you guys are engaged in. These guys are already heading for diagnosable, medical, not to mention legal trouble.

what the F*** do you mean alcohol ? he normally never drinks, some beers wehen you out with your freinds that is not alcohol ! NOTHING would have happened if that bitch had not shaked her tits in his face !!!!!!!!

[Bouncy]

Soz, no, B. Let me put it in a different light. What they need to stay away from is alcohol. It is said, when it starts affecting your conduct in public, or your relationships in private, you know you’ve got the start of a problem. I don’t mean to sound like some evangelistic AA counselor (I'm not), or put a pious pall over things, but it’s clear that these boys are painting a picture that goes way beyond the boy/girl spat that you guys are engaged in. These guys are already heading for diagnosable, medical, not to mention legal trouble.

I agree that staying away from alcohol is a good idea as well. However, his disrespect of women in general is the same whether or not alcohol is involved. That's apparent from his ideas on how to deal with the outfall of their (I include them as a pair, or group) actions in this single night in question. Instead of seeing the error of their ways, all he's done is look for excuses and schemes to get away with treating that woman in the club with no respect, and as a consequence of that action, the girlfriend has been disrespected as well. He can't see that.

[Bouncy]

what the F*** do you mean alcohol ? he normally never drinks, some beers wehen you out with your freinds that is not alcohol ! NOTHING would have happened if that bitch had not shaked her tits in his face !!!!!!!!

See what I mean Cambridge?

Tell me StupidGuy, were you drinking non-alcoholic beer? And as I understand it from what you've said in other threads, she did not shake her tits in his face. You've just embellished things yet again. If she had, she would have been the one who made the first contact. It was your friend who initiated things by joking about checking them to see if they were real, not her shaking them in his face.

[Cambridge]

what the F*** do you mean alcohol ? he normally never drinks, some beers wehen you out with your freinds that is not alcohol ! NOTHING would have happened if that bitch had not shaked her tits in his face !!!!!!!!

First it’s confrontation. Next it’s denial. I‘m telling you if you’ve had any kind of alcohol and done something that is unacceptable in public or something that affects a relationship, you’ve got an alcohol problem. You guys have done both. I'm just telling you the symptoms. It’s up to you guys to get help.

Your denial is something that you guys have to confront. If he normally never drinks, they why the “some beers when out with friends”…And then there’s this problem??? Beer is not alcohol? Yeah, right. The most common excuse in the books. You guys have got to come to grips with your problem. How many of you have DUIs? Or is that under the rug, as well? Alcoholism is a serious social problem, and either you come to grips with it now or the courts will help you after you kill someone’s daughter with your automobile while driving intoxicated. In the US I'm talking prison for 8-10 years. Grabbing tits is just a symptom; you’ve got big problems in your future.

B, I hope you realize that this behavior is directly related to drinking, which inevitably lowers inhibitions. He probably gets on-line during or after the cocktail hour. The place he’s at right now is denial. The anger is for anyone who tries to press his denial. Check out the website for the Center for Alcoholic Studies at Rutgers University. You’ll find all the behavioral aspects listed.

[noodles]

sorry if this is a little long but it is kind of complicated. a good friend of mine might be in danger of getting trouble with his girlfriend.

the trouble with her is that she has some complexes because of her breasts, she has size A or to say it more clearly she is flat like a surfboard. OK this is not great but on the other hand she has a really nice face and some VERY good "mouthly abilities" if you know what I mean (and other abilities in bed too !). anyway she has ALLWAYS making him trouble when he has been looking for a few seconds at women who are better equipped on their breasts and she has gotten really angry and he kind of promised her not to do it anymore.

now there has been an event when he (without wanting it !) had for a few seconds kind of made tried to make a joking contact with such a woman (he had NO intention of cheating !) and the result was the he was brutally attacked by her ! now the problem he has it what to say to his girlfriend it is really complicated and I will try to divide it into 3 options:

option 2): he does not tell her anything. the problem here is that he frequently visits the club where it happened together with his girlfriends and some friends and there is a real danger that they might meet the girl who did it there again and that SHE might tell her !

option 3): similar as option 2) but he also asks his friends to look out for that girl whenever they are in the club and when they see her to tell her that it is in her own interest to say nothing. because if she did it would ruin her reputation even more than his because what she did ! she could be sure never to find a boyfriend, I mean even when a girl has size D equipment, what guy who even has only a little brain would run a risk to date a girl that is filled up to her ears with aggressions like a bomb waiting to explode ? so it would be some kind of "I dont tell if you dont tell agreement". the problem here is that he has no way to know how she would react, would she agree to this or would she during the first opportunity whe she sees his girlfriend tell her, I mean she tried to ruin his manhood and failed, next thing she might try is to ruin his relationsship !!!!!!

so, any SERIOUS and HELPFULL comments would be appreciated (to those people who know I mean them if they should read this: I wrote these two words in big letters for a reason, I hope you understand this, if I wished I could spam your threads too !)

WTF

[lovealot]

good god is this nutter still on about this?


get over yourself and get a life somestraightguy!!!!

[Sharon den Adel]

SSG, you are an idiot, and you hold some really outdated views of women.

[SomeStraightGuy]

SSG, you are an idiot, and you hold some really outdated views of women.

idiot yourself !

[Bouncy]

SSG, you are an idiot, and you hold some really outdated views of women.

idiot yourself !

You sure told her!

[Captain]

what the F*** do you mean alcohol ? he normally never drinks, some beers wehen you out with your freinds that is not alcohol ! NOTHING would have happened if that bitch had not shaked her tits in his face !!!!!!!!

First it’s confrontation. Next it’s denial. I‘m telling you if you’ve had any kind of alcohol and done something that is unacceptable in public or something that affects a relationship, you’ve got an alcohol problem. You guys have done both. I'm just telling you the symptoms. It’s up to you guys to get help.

Your denial is something that you guys have to confront. If he normally never drinks, they why the “some beers when out with friends”…And then there’s this problem??? Beer is not alcohol? Yeah, right. The most common excuse in the books. You guys have got to come to grips with your problem. How many of you have DUIs? Or is that under the rug, as well? Alcoholism is a serious social problem, and either you come to grips with it now or the courts will help you after you kill someone’s daughter with your automobile while driving intoxicated. In the US I'm talking prison for 8-10 years. Grabbing tits is just a symptom; you’ve got big problems in your future.

B, I hope you realize that this behavior is directly related to drinking, which inevitably lowers inhibitions. He probably gets on-line during or after the cocktail hour. The place he’s at right now is denial. The anger is for anyone who tries to press his denial. Check out the website for the Center for Alcoholic Studies at Rutgers University. You’ll find all the behavioral aspects listed.

This guys problem is not alcohol. It's chauvinist sexist fuckheadedness superiority and refusal to exercise self control.
Don't give him an excuse for his actions, there is none. I have a boyfriend and when I go out and get drunk I don't grope other men, lowered inhibitions or no. That is a bullshit excuse and I don't buy it.